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*uvin ryan 4lyf
writes:Their is this guy at school, I like him and I know that he likes me, he gives the impression that he likes me too. I ask him to meet up with me on weekends, and he does, he flirts but i dont know whether this is just friendly or something more. He keeps goin on to me about his friend that really fancies me but its him who i fancy not his mate. Does he want to start a realtionship or is he just playin?Doesnt he know how to go about it? i could really use a lot if help plz
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): i have i guy friend who is like that to. he is always around me and i can teel that he is flirting with me and he is always asking me it i will go out with some of his friends but i like him. at first i was kind of bashful so i didnt say anything to him about it. then we started flirting with him a little more and soon he asked me out. but, if you are a very outgoing person you should ask himout, if you are not,you can just do what i did,flirt back with him and then if he likes you, he will ask you out. -cheyenne
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 i would say that yes he does like you but his friend does too. Maybe he feels he would be betraying his friend if he went out with you. I think you need to let him know that it is him you are interested in. He may not want to upset his friend but you wont know unless you try.
Good luck
Aunty t
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reader, AskEve +, writes (8 March 2007):
 I think he's using his mate as an excuse here and is just trying to tease you. Be assertive here and let him know you have no interest in his friend whatsoever and continue to enjoy his friendship. You never know, the more you talk, the more he'll be able to confide in you and build up a trust. Hopefully in time, you'll become more than just friends. I think he does like you so hang on in there.
Eve
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reader, orla-me +, writes (8 March 2007):
in my opinion this guy dosen t seem to have much experience with girls and as you said dosent no how to go about it. i no its hard but just come out and tell him that your not interested in his friend but in him. make sure its just him and you when you do this maybe plan to spend the whole day together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2007): this guy sounds like hes trying to test the waters with you...i no it may be hard but i think you should just tell him that your not interested in his friend but in him.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 If he is flirting with you, I think he likes you and his "friend" is just an excuse to talk to you. Try this - Tell him your friend Samantha thinks He is cute - "My friend Samantha thinks you are hot" - "My friend Samantha thinks she likes you!"- and finally - "By the way, Did I tell you my middle name? It's Samantha." If he is at all interested, he'll take it from there.
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