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writes:What do girls like..lik I kno a girl in a sex thong or booty shorts with a matching bra is sexy for any girl...but wat can I do 4 my girlfriend..and I'm not talking about a man thong or anything lol...wat do girls think is sexy that guys can do...what can guys do that girls think is sexy before sex that a guy can do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2007): I kind of wish some of you folks wouldn't generalize about women. Perhaps SOME women get turned on ONLY by the brain but certainly not all. I love soccer wear. I LOVE tennis outfits. I like it when a guy wipes off his sweat with his shirt and shows his abs. I LOVE ripped abs. I like those cotton white boxer shorts that show your bulge. I like when a guy walks around topless with just his pants or boxers. Guys playing sports or doing anything with their shirts off is a HUGE turn on.
Just think of Slash how he always played guitar with his shirt off. Or think of Axl how he always played concerts with his shirt off and with spandex. Just be BADass and topless at the same time.
Just sit in your house with your shirt off and flex your abs while you play an instrument. She will swoon. Just don't play the flute. LOL!
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reader, pgissyd  +, writes (21 December 2007):
 To be honest, women get turned on in the brain, not because of what you wear.
If she makes an effort, make it blatently obvious you really appreciate it and you find her stunning, even if she doesnt make an effort in fact! Lots of compliments mostly, but the drooling look (without the drooling) is usually enough, if a woman feels sexy she will be turned on no matter what you wear.
Most of all fresh breath is important, you wouldnt want to kiss a girl who had foul breath would you?
Some woman are turned on by role play, another brain stimulation really, you need to find out if she gets turned on watching pirates of the carrabean or blue jean cop etc, or just ask her ;) then you can dress up to suit and add a few accesories, if she like leather clad men, add a whip, policemen add handcuffs, pirates the shirt is a must, with messed up hair and a little 9o'clock shadow, or with firmen you need a hose (snigger).
but the basic basic rule for turning a women on is make HER feel sexy.
hope that helps xxxx
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (21 December 2007):
 NO stubble, it looks cool but it hurts and gives us a rash. If you have excess hair or thick hair, trim it to a reasonable length. Please consider waxing if you have it on your shoulders or back.
I just bought "lifeguard" underwear, "soldier" underwear and a football lace up jock strap from a company called "Undergear" (US) for hubby! Happy Christmas to ME! If you are into role playing, all women love those sexy pirate type shirts that they stick on the cover of Harlequin Romance novels, and of course - Firemen! Also the white officer's uniform from the movie "An Officer and a Gentleman".
Number one accessory? A really naughty smile!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2007): 1. clean and nice smelling
2. nice boxers =]
3. shaved!!!! or at least pruned a bit!!!
4. nice clothes
5. yum =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2007): Make sure you're perfectly groomed- clean nails, clean teeth, clean shaven or that your facial hair is soft. Nothing is worse than beard burn!
Then make sure your clothes are clean too.
Kiss her a lot and deeply and let her know how beautiful you think she is. Give her a lovely foot rub and/or back rub. Remember that sometimes women touch men the way the woman wants to be touched and sobtake your cue from that. If she's grabbing at you like a life preserver then do likewise back. If she's tentative and soft then touch her in the same way.
Light candles around the bed, write her a love letter, be very romantic and most women will melt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2007): good question
apart from what "tasteofindia" says below, there really isnt that much you can do as it is always girls who have to make the effort and dress up for guys.
if you and your gf have some kinda fantasy like i dunno cops n robbers of something then i guess you can dress up for that but apart from dressing up there isnt reli anything you can actually wear that is sexy, like a thong is on a girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2007): To be honest, I don't know about clothes being sexy on guys, BUT I will tell you something I DO find very sexy. It has nothing to do with clothes. But a really defined and toned abdominal region. That is sexy.
My ex had a really nice body and, wow. Everytime he took his shirt off my jaw dropped. I mean I don't know what you look like and you may have a nice body already, but being in top shape is really sexy for me. And he always walked around with his shirt off. That is priceless. It was better than anything he could wear.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (21 December 2007):
 A nice clean shaven look, throw on a little (key word: little - too many guys overdose!!) cologne and put on a nice pair of underwear. There are lots of fancy underwear places to pick up a sweet pair of underroos.
Cleanliness is Numero Uno on MY sexy list. Oh, and do some "man-scaping" - trim up below the belt.
There you go, sweetness. Enjoy!
xx India
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