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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Sorry if this is a bit of a weird question but im slightly worried. Is a little bit of excess skin "down below" normal? I know porn stars etc have surgery down there so it looks perfect. but on me, (excuse the going into detail) inbewtween the flaps there a little more random skin. My boyfriend says its perfectly normal but im not happy and the older i get the more im worrying about it! Do alot of girls have it? and if not would any future boyfriends mind?thanks x x x
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reader, softtouchmale2003  +, writes (10 January 2010):
 Its not unusual at all. I've been with different women my whole life, and at 50 that's a lot of baggage (some good -- some not so good LOL).
The skin is not the issue. Any really good guy will tell you that what it looks like down there, provided there are no teeth or barbed instruments involved, is quite exquisite provided it all belongs to you. After all your guy loves you, and presumably its actually attached to you.
Which means, don't sweat it. However if you must control this thing to feel better, there are plastic surgeons who do specialize in all sorts of requests; yours is not unusual.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (10 January 2010):
Go to this website www.labiastretching.com. I must warn you there are graphic pics. But this is just to show you how perfectly normal you are. Sometimes if you have something different you can always use it to your advantage by making it into a positive and sexy thing. If you learn to love your labia and use the fact that you have them as a sexy thing, then perhaps your boyfriend will from thence forth be a labia addict too!! (ok, sorry; am being a bit weird but am sure you get the point!)
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reader, Angzw +, writes (10 January 2010):
Go to this website www.labiastretching.com. I must warn you there are graphic pics. But this is just to show you how perfectly normal you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010): hello i have exactly the same thing.
its normall.
its called labia minora..look it up.
we come in diffrent shapes and sizes just like a mans penis. :)x
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (10 January 2010):
 Yes, a lot of girls have it.
Your boyfriend is right, it is totally normal.
Don't worry about it, the most you can do is learn to accept it. If it bothers you that much then try to avoid looking at it.
It's not in a place that you have to see it.
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010): i am in the same situation like you! and i too don't know how guys will react when they get to see it. it's really embarrassing for me to expose it.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 January 2010):
Your boyfriend is happy, and being a male I can tell you there's nothing wrong with you. Every woman is different, and a guy will love you for who you are. Don't worry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010): Thats totally normal, don't rely on pornstars' appearance, its never reliable and yes not to mention they may have had surgery.
Be comfortable in the skin you're in :]
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reader, jessjess +, writes (10 January 2010):
 Normal :) xg
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