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writes:I've been an assistant manager at the same store for about 5 years now. Recently, a new pharmacist started at my store. I almost immediately felt chemistry between us. We definitely flirt, but keep it very innocent since it is work. Even some other coworkers tease me and say they think he has a crush on me. Anyway, we were talking two weeks ago and he teased that I didn't invite him to a party I had. So not long after I worked up the courage and gave him my number and told him that this was so we could get a drink sometime. It's been two weeks and he hasn't called me. Nothing has changed, he still tries to get my attention and we flirt back and forth. My friends think I intimidate him and thats why he hasn't called. I want to hang out and get to know him more, but don't want to make it uncomfortable since we work together. Any ideas?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 March 2010):
If he's not called in 2 weeks, he's not interested. Sorry, but you need to move on.
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reader, jaime90  +, writes (11 March 2010):
 Maybe he has a girlfriend, doesn't want you to have his number because then you will contact him when she is around.
if thats true then he is a player, he has a girl but wants someone to flirt with when she isn't around.
i don't see why he would act into you then not call, maybe he is just friendly but your taking it the wrong way? and he hasn't called because he doesn't want you to get the impression he wants more then friends?
maybe he is a dick who likes to play with peoples minds?
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reader, Weramazing +, writes (11 March 2010):
 The reason he hasn't called is because he's not that interested. I'm sorry but that is the truth. You didn't do anything wrong giving him your number but if you continue to try and get with him that would not be a good thing to do and you could end up feeling really rejected and embarrassed.
It has been two weeks there are just no excuses if he was interested in more then a little flirting at work you would have heard from him and been on at least one date by now.
Don't continue to flirt with him as you may end up liking him more just be professional and friendly with him.
Please read the book 'he's just not that into you' the original book. It is a very good book which answers these sort of questions from a mans point of view. Trust me it has helped me in the past.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (11 March 2010):
 He may be dating "trying" other woman first, if he wants to get intouch with you he will.
As marieclaire says, if a man really likes a woman nothing will stand in his way.
Sure you can wait a bit of time, but dont spend too long. If he hasnt got intouch in another 2 weeks then move on.
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