A
female
age
30-35,
*adyRi
writes:Hi, whenever I meet my boyfriend during the week days and we have sex, I don't enjoy it bcos he comes within just 2mins and I don't even get to climax. Though if we make out on weekends I enjoy it and it lasts longer. The problem here is we are on a long distance relationship and I only get to see him once in two months or more, during the time I'm back at my place, I use my vibrator and my stimulator to get sexual pleasure which I feel does a better job than my boyfriend. Though I love him so much and I don't wanna have sex with anyone else. And whenever I asked him why he came so quickly, he'd tell me its bcos he loves me so much and he got so excited and it only happens with me. Hey guys is this true? Cos I still don't wanna believe the bluff story about being hyper excited
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reader, Nime  +, writes (5 November 2010):
 He's telling the truth. I also only get to see my boyfriend for a couple of days every 4-6 weeks (we go to different grad schools) and the first couple of times we have sex, during penetration, he can't last more than a minute or two. Because of this we always engage in a lot of foreplay so that he can attempt to bring me to orgasm first, but sometimes if I reciprocate 'too much', by kissing his neck, for example, he will just go right then and there. He is also especially sensitive because he's uncircumcised. Most guys need to have sex and masturbate regularly in order to build up stamina and desensitize. To mitigate your problem you can suggest to your boyfriend that he try masturbating more often while you two are apart and exercising his PC muscles. When he comes to visit I also sometimes try to help him practice delaying ejaculation through a combination of massaging his member and then regularly squeezing it hard at the base to prevent him from cumming; this works wonders and, according to him, feels as good as a blowjob. Look up the techniques if you so desire.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (5 November 2010):
 Providing there is no medical reason or he doenst suffer from premature ejeculation no its probably not true.
Hes putting his own needs before yours which is selfish. Whenever I make love to my girlfriend I always make sure she has an orgasm before I ejeculate.
Some guys can delay ejeculation if we want to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): If he hasn't seen you for a few months it may be difficult for him to contain himself! Your age says 18-21 so if he's still young too in time, with your help, he could learn to control his body. Work with him and perhaps don't give him as much foreplay but allow him to concentrate on you then sex may last longer for him.
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