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writes:Im confused about my sexuality, i don't know whether i am bi curious bisexual or straight?I've had boyfriends and been on plenty of dates with guys, but i get really bored of them after a little while and end up messing them about un intentionally because one minute i could be all loved up and literally the next day i could be totally off him. I've also had a few 'crushes' on a few girls (which i hate to admit) but have never taken it any further. And i wonder if this is the reason i am this way with guys who i get involved with.I don't know whether i am just bi curious because i do wonder what it would be like to kiss another girl - but i know i will never do this because im too embarrassed to feel this way. Its been on my mind a lot lately and really starting to confuse me. can anyone help?
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reader, Cyg79  +, writes (20 August 2008):
 Hmm,
Well you have asked the question now you just have to figure out if you want to know the answer. One thing you can do is look around online and read other peoples stories and see what being bi, straight, curious and gay means to them. Or just how they handled a similar situation. But be wary of reading about labels, since their meant to generalize.
I’m like you; I can meet a guy, find him fascinating one second and be running for my life and sanity the next. There are a lot of possibilities out there as to why, but when I really look at what I want from life the list narrows considerably. Decided what you want from life and what your willing to do to get there. (or to figure it out) Also don’t be afraid to feel, its one of the greatest gifts in life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2008): It's possible that you are bi, I think in order to know for sure then you should experiment with girls a bit. Obviously if you don't want to then don't, and you need to only do things that you are comfortable with. Like if you are not comfortable liking girls then keep seeing guys and just see how that goes. Maybe you just haven't found the right guy yet that keeps you interested for longer than a few days! But there's no need to label yourself - just be who you are and like who you like. No one else can dictate that to you.
Good luck :) !!
xx Hope xx
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