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Had to break up with her because I had mixed feelings when I asked her out; I still want to be friends, what should I say when she calls?

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Question - (30 August 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 August 2008)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok where to begin i was going out with this girl a wile ago we were in love. then i broke up with her because she started to ignore me for about 2 weeks. she kept saying how she loved ect (she wouldnt let me go) and i really did love her but then she went out with another guy (i quote her words) "Eric it doesnt look like ull take me back i still love u i just need to be able to let u go"

well about a month later i found a new girlfriend she was nice and i liked her so i asked her out she said yes. a month passes i realized that she wasnt right for me and that i was still i love with my ex so i break up with her (as delicate and polite as i could)

i told her i still wanted to be friends and i told her its because i had mixed feelings when i asked her out. she didnt take it so well, she sent me an email saying im sorry i wasnt good enough for you why did u ask me out in the first place.

Unfortuantly i didnt get the message till this morning. and she left another message today saying that shes gunna call me and she didnt sound so happy (more of a mad tone).

my question is what should i say. i totally led this girl on i feel ashamed of myself that i could even do such a thing to another person. can someone pllz pplz plz help me

i still do want to be her friend she was a good friend. i want to say that its not you its me cuz it would be the truth unfortunately its the most over used line so its no good. so aunts and uncles i need your advice what to say

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A female reader, babewithbrains United Kingdom +, writes (30 August 2008):

babewithbrains agony auntTell her you are so sorry. You can't tack the weeks you spent with her, so that's the best you can do if she dosn't accept it then more foolish is her.

Jelly

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