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writes: My mom is 4 months pregnant, and I think I might be pregnant also.. I'm 18 and live on my own but she still supports me a lot! I dont know how to tell her that I am pregnant, or that I think I might be. Help, please?
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reader, Ravenxx91 +, writes (26 October 2009):
I think the best thing you can do (we are the same age btw) Is wait until you can confirm your pregnant, then if you are close to your mum, if confirmed positive, then sit her down and tll her, you wont be able to hide it for long, so you guys might as well share your feelings and the pregnancies together x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 October 2009):
Make sure that you are pregnant before saying anything to her. If you are, then you'll just have to sit her down and be honest with her. But make sure that you are pregant before telling her anything.
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reader, Country Woman +, writes (26 October 2009):
First of all I think you need to make sure that you are pregnant first of all and then address the issue of telling your mum.
Have you done a test yet or not? If so, have you had confirmation from your doctor or clinic?
Have you told the father that you are pregnant? Will he support you in any way? Do you want to keep your baby? Had you planned this pregnancy or was it something you really didn't want to happen?
I think you need to confirm the facts and then talk to your mum about it. She better than anyone knows what you are going through and she can help you through this time as we all needs our mum's at certain points in our lives.
Are you close to your mum?
Make sure you have friend's and family around you and especially if you want to keep your baby as you will need all the help you can get.
Keep us posted sweetheart and yes it won't be easy but I know you will get through it OK. Just try and stay calm and tell your mum when you are in a calm mood and you know that she is relaxed as well.
Keep us posted on how things go OK.
BFN
Country Woman
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