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writes:ok well me and this guy have been seeing each other for about 4-5 months...he hasnt tried to kiss me ... he used to talk about sex but now he isnt. i dont know if i should break it off with him or what. i like him a lot and he says the same about me.he says that he is trying to respect me since i am a virgin.. im ready to have sex but im not sure how to tell him.. plz help me and him are both the same age 20 . to me it seems like he just acts very childish Reply to this Question
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reader, HereAreMyTwoCents +, writes (7 October 2009):
 Well, there is really nothing left to do except to tell him, "I'm ready to have sex with you. Do you want to do it?" You are making the situation way more complicated than it is or has to be! If you're ready to have sex, tell him! After four or five months together you should be able to feel comfortable enough around each other to be open about this! And if you're not, then you need to break the last of whatever ice is left between the two of you that is preventing you from being totally open and honest and vulnerable with him.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (7 October 2009):
 Possibly sounds tight, but I cant help thinking that if you need to ask how to let him know, then its probably not the right time yet?? x
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (7 October 2009):
if ur ready hun u may have to make the first move. heck u mite have to make it obvios as the day light. you kno him better then all of us so only you know what he is comfortable with. if you thnk it wud get him in the mood just tell him to kiss you. if he does then tell him you think he's really sexy and that he turns you on. by this time he will most certainly be hard as a rock and then u can just ask him if he wants to get naked with you. if he does then there you go. if you dnt thnk he will be into that approach then just simply tell him you want him to sleep with you.
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