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female
age
36-40,
*alilover22
writes:Ok so I've been best friends with my best guy friend for over 5 years now. We never go a day without talking and we are extremely close. Its like we are practically dating already and over the last few months we have kissed a few times and both developed feelings for eachother.So of course there are a few problems. First off he has only been with one girl, the girl who he lost his virginity to and it was only a one night stand. Hes never been intimately close with anyone.Another thing is that he has came out to me before saying that he is bi-curious that he finds both men and women attractive but doesnt really have the urge to have sex with either gender. People have asked me if he is gay and before we started kissing I always thought he was a-sexual but now I dont know. I think that he needs to explore his sexuality more before he can give me what I need in a relationship but maybe im wrong.We both talk abt this and agree to take this extremely slow. He really does mean a lot to me but since we are such good friends I just dont want to go into this and risk losing him. Im not sure if I should just stop it all now before we get in to deep? Are these "problems" something to be really worried about? Or should I take my chances?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 There are no problems in life that cannot be solved.If you have love, everything is possible.
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