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30-35,
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writes:Yesterday my best friend/crush Rob sat in front of me on the bus and when I talked about a teacher he liked that I have, he would turn around and ask what they said trying to be into the conversation. Even if I didn’t talk then he would turn around and pretend like he wasn’t looking at me. When we talk I always get close to his face and he doesn’t move away. I took out my vocab words to look at and I said that he was one of the words then he wanted to look at the list to see what that word meant. Then when he had the list then he would say that he was another word that was nicer than the one I said. I took it right out of his hands and he said that he was looking at that but he was smiling/laughing. Every time I tease him playfully he just smiles and laughs. I always make funny faces behind him and if he turns around and sees then he says cut that out but he smiles and laughs about it. He makes it seem like he doesn’t like me but he does. I told him that he liked me teasing him and he said no but he was smiling and laughing like he was lying when saying that. I don’t get why he would say something but make it look like it wasn’t true. He did play with the little kid on the bus but he says that he didn’t when I know that he did. When my best friend Grace, who is Rob’s cousin, is on the bus he says why you are on like he wanted to talk to only me. I asked Grace if he liked me and she said that sometimes she thinks he does and she doesn’t think he will come straight out with it.. When I try to talk to Rob online or by text he doesn’t answer any more. I don’t get how he used to answer my emails and texts but now he only reads never answers. It gets me really mad that he does that because then I don’t know how he feels about the email. I’m totally afraid that when I graduate, he won’t talk to me anymore because the only way we talk is on the bus now. I want to talk to him outside of school or online but I don’t know whether he will. How can I talk to him outside of school?
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (14 November 2009):
 I'd say he does fancie you but is a bit nervous. Some people say that you should aways play hard to get but in actual fact, it tends to annoy or frustrate most. Make an effort of talking to him as much as possible without boardering on creepy stalker girl, total turn-off. Just flirt a bit more with him and see how things develop, you might have to ask him out- as in, not wait for him as many girls do- but it could be worth it *wink* =)!good luckxx
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 November 2009):
He probaly does like you but hasn't the slightest clue how you feel about him. If you want to talk to him, you have to talk to him face to face. Tell him you'd like to get to know him more.
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