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writes:hey im 17 and there this guy on my college course that i thought like me but it turns out he got a girlfriend, but he keeps asking if i want to sleep with him, i mean i wanted too.. but now i know he got a girlfriend i dont know what to do pls help x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): dont do it
respect urself
he just want to use u
dont u rather sleep wit a boy who is ur bf
and who loves u and not the other girl?
dont fall for his games
dont do it!
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reader, Carrot2000  +, writes (27 November 2009):
 Not only does he have a girlfriend, but he's asking for sex before he's even asked you to go out on a date. LOSER! The fact that your good enough to screw, but not good enough to take out to a dinner or movie, should give you an idea of his character and how little he thinks of you. If you sleep with him, best believe that he will tell every guy in class that he did.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009): I've got a hot girlfriend, and I want to sleep with you too. Unless, of course, you're fugly.Get with it, my dear, this is how men are. Just deal with it. Enjoy it. Many women are doing so right now.Besides, to be honest, you are liking the idea that you can steal away some hot girl's guy, don't you sweetie?Come on now! I know what you're thinking... WOW! Imagine that, he has this hot chick and he'll cheat on her with me, giggle, giggle, giggle. I guess I must be just that much hotter.Girls love to steal from each other. They lie about it. But the sure do love to do it. Why do you suppose the little chickies always spend their time fighting and gossiping about anyway?What kind of real advice did you expect? I know what you're thinking. Don't play innocent with us.
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reader, oliviaclairex +, writes (26 November 2009):
 He has a girlfriend and wants to sleep with you, so this already tells you what kind of guy he is.
If you fancy him and want to then you could, but you have to think about your feelings afterwards and if you will start to like him as then you will get hurt as he has a girlfriend. And you have to think about his girlfriends feelings. xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009): hey thanks for all you answers, its been a help i just got confuse as he was the the only one that spoke in my class, as im a girl in a clas full of guys they are all funny with me, n he seem desicent but it was only yesterday i found out about him having a girlfriend but i will stay away if he wants me he prove it.. thanks xxx
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (26 November 2009):
 Why, you have sex with him of course. You should be trilled with the honor that he wants to use you as a sextoy and nothing else. Now go to him and beg forgiveness for delaying him.
BTW, anyone know how to use sarcasm tags on this forums? I can't seem to find anyway to use them.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 November 2009):
Simple. He wants you for sex, so don't give into him. Find a better guy.
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reader, Accountable +, writes (26 November 2009):
 Well he clearly just wants to use you for sex, so I dont really see why you're even considering it. Tell him he has a girlfriend for that, and you're not just going to be a toy for him. He's just shown himself to lack any decency/character, I'd stay well away from him if I were you.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (26 November 2009):
 Well he just wants to use you for sex - nothing more! So definitely dont sleep with him otherwise you will end up regretting it.
Find yourself a nice guy who wouldnt cheat on a girl and someone who likes you for who you are, not just for sex.
Next time he asks for sex just tell him you dont want to be part of his cheating and he can find some other slut to sleep around with. Or use Gina's response, his face would be a picture if you said that to him!
Guys like this one are just immature jerks that only think about themselves, dont let yourself get caught up with an idiot like this. You deserve so much better - dont lower your standards!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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