How do I find out if she is gay, without embarrassing myself?
Q. All names changed to protect the innocent (or not so innocent). She and I have been in the same class for 2 and a half years now. We're in year 9 at the moment. I came out as lesbian last year (it wasn't easy, I made it more difficult for my...
A. 1 February 2008: hey there, u cud try n just ask her casually if shes ever had gay thoughts and take it from there, just see what reaction you get. Im a yr 9 n im kind of like a bi, but im not so sure about it and no-one know's but i kinda know what your going ... (read in full...)
My parents are telling me that marriage is burdensome! Now I'm depressed about my upcoming marriage!!
Q. I am depressed because of my marriage coming near as my parents give me an impression that i am heading towards some kind of burdensome relationship to carry for my entire life as they had been doing it themselves.. I feel too much overwhelmed with ...
A. 4 June 2007: you dont have to listen to your parents. Just because some people have had bad marriages doesnt mean that yours will turn out bad because if you really love this woman then you wouldnt let anyone stand in the way of that. Your parents sound as if ... (read in full...)
I like him and he likes me, but he's in a relationship! Is it wrong to still flirt with each other?
Q. Hiya, I've fallen for a close mate of mine, but the problem is he has a girlfirend who he's been with for two years! He's told me that he's fallen for me too. But the thing is I dont think he will end it with his girlfriend for me. Is it wro...
A. 4 June 2007: well, personally I would end it with him because if his girlfriend finds out then that would be very horrible for her. But I understand that you like him, so the best thing that you could do is maybe give him a set time to tell his girlfriend about ... (read in full...)
What can I do as a romantic gesture for our 6 month anniversary?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 6 months its a long distance relationship, its our 6 months aniversary this month and I'm going to be seeing her. Just wanted to know if anyone had ideas for a romantic day I could organise for me and ...
A. 4 June 2007: well, you could organise a meal at home with candles and music and then when you both go upstairs, rose petals could be on the bed, and you would share a bottle of wine together or something. For a present you could maybe get her a nice ring or ... (read in full...)
We don't get to see each other that much, but I still really like him! How can this relationship work?
Q. I recently met a man on a dating site, he said that he would love to talk to me if I am interested then I said yes I am. We hit it off from there. I have been on the site for 4 months, he for one year and I was going over other sites, I found out ...
A. 4 June 2007: I think that this relationship can work, because if you two really like each other then nothing should stand in the way of your love. It would be nicer to video chat each other on phones if you have them, or if your chatting online then you could ... (read in full...)
He seems to only like me when he's drunk! Is he worth it or should I let him go?
Q. Hey hey, The guy that I have been seeing for 7 months only lets himself go when he's drinking. When he's sober, he doesn't speak to me as often. And it's almost like he only likes me when he's drunk. He said from the beginning that he's not a bi...
A. 4 June 2007: well, I personally think that you should end this relationship because however much you might like him, he isnt showing his affection. If someone is in a serious relationship then they wouldnt mind showing their affection towards their partner in ... (read in full...)
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