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writes:I'm 19 and I'm still a virgin!!! I met this guy and he's really cool I really like him! And he' always tries to take it to the next level you know "sex" I like him but I don't know how to tell him I'm a virgin, or what he will think of me, or if his attitude will change towards me because of it what should I do? Girls what would you do in my situation? And guys what would do you advise me to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007): tell him, he will luv that fact u are, and will love u more
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reader, rubberduck  +, writes (21 March 2007):
well me being a guy i have to say virgin or non vigin it dusnt matter. as far as sex goes theres nothing to be scared about as the guy is usually the one dooing all the work. it up to you wheather you tell him or not. but if you doo then definately dont waight till ur both undressing. that will just make the guy think that you told him because your nervus which in turn will make him nervus, and when guys are nervus we cant perform like we can/want to. and if he does change when you tell him then dont go for it, if he distances himself then its highly unlikely he is the one you want to be your first.
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (20 March 2007):
 hun i lost my virginty at age 10 i was raped and that was the worst part because by the time i was ready to settle down with the guy i am marrying in may it wont be the best because i dont have that special moment....but you have that chance to stay a virgin intil your married....sometimes telling a guy that your a virgin will change everything he will be happy to know that your a virgin and may push you into it but then again it may help him the only one who can decied is you so when your ready go for it but make sure hes the one its a one time thing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007): Sweetie hold on, I am a 26 yr. old female virgin and I am still waiting, and it's not because I am unattractive I get hit on all the time, but I refuse to be played around with and live with regrets. God has already purposed the idea guy for you (in marriage) so until then love yourself by continuing to respect you, and when it's time, it will be right.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (18 March 2007):
 It's okay to be a virgin. I was a virgin at 19 too.
Tell your guy that you want to make your first time a nice memory and you need it to happen when you feel it's right. If he loves you he will respect that.
And why should his attitude towards you change? Because you stood up for yourself and decided to wait until you found the right guy? Anybody with a bit of brains would think that's cool.
Take care.
/dragonette
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