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He lied and I have to ask how can I continue in a relationship where the trust is gone?

Q.   I recently found out my boyfriend of 1 year lied to me about something big (I dont want to mention what), he doesnt consider it a big deal but its not the first time he's lied and my trust in him is totally gone. Im struggling to get back those ...

A.   21 March 2007: my friend is in the same place you are. but years ahead. she loves this guy, but there are so meny lies flying about at one time half of them get forgotten about. he has her wraped around her finger because its been so long. there is 2thi... (read in full...)

I have a very negative self image and can't bear to look at myself in a mirror.

Q.   I am 18, at uni and fed up! I've only had one boyfriend (being single at the moment) and he constantly pressured me for sex, which at the time I was not prepared to give him. I have a very negative self-image (can't bear to catch sight of myself i...

A.   21 March 2007: first things first. when a guy meets you he checks out your face, speeks to you for a while untill the perfect oppertunity to check out the full package, ie when you turn around. if he dusnt like that the chances are the flirting stops there so he ... (read in full...)

I am a girl and I orgasm really quickly, do boys like that?

Q.   Am I normal? I'm a virgin and I'm not rushing into sex with my boyfriend any time soon but we have taken it for hand jobs and fingering and when he fingers me he only does it for a little while and I orgasm straight away, is it normal to orgasm i...

A.   21 March 2007: all guys are different, but orgasming quickly is likely to be more of a turn on. for guys everythings a competition and the more he gives you the better hel feel about himself. the chances are hes thinking hes just an utter stud if he gets you goin ... (read in full...)

He keeps trying to take it to the next level but I'm still a virgin and apprehensive.

Q.   I'm 19 and I'm still a virgin!!! I met this guy and he's really cool I really like him! And he' always tries to take it to the next level you know "sex" I like him but I don't know how to tell him I'm a virgin, or what he will think of me, or if his ...

A.   21 March 2007: well me being a guy i have to say virgin or non vigin it dusnt matter. as far as sex goes theres nothing to be scared about as the guy is usually the one dooing all the work. it up to you wheather you tell him or not. but if you doo then definately ... (read in full...)

Three boys I really like. How do I know which one is true love?

Q.   well...i think im in love but with wat boy?.i think about 3 different boys on several occations and i love them all but how do i know which one i lovelove?? xxxx...

A.   21 March 2007: its not who doo you love because we always fall for the wrong people. which one is best for you. and then spen more time with that person and soon enough your feelings will be clear. ... (read in full...)

I can't shake the fear that some other girl will take my bf! What should I do?

Q.   Hi my "friend" developed feelings for my boyfriend and would do anything to spend time alone with him at a party she had i found them jus sitting in the kitchen talking (fair enuff) then in the living room, and when i walked in she walked out, ...

A.   21 March 2007: sometimes these things happen. i myself have been cheated on by the last 3 girls iv been out with. you need to set yourself aside from these "other girls" just because you have your man dosnt mean your in the clear. when your out show other girls ... (read in full...)

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