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*hetagirl81
writes:Why would a guy flirt heavily with a girl, tell how awesome she is and about how they think it'd be nice to kiss and cuddle but then say that they are not interested in a relationship? And how do I get him to want a relationship w/ me?
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reader, firstlovelastlove  +, writes (26 February 2011):
 I agree with CaringGuy. I think he's 'laying the ground work' for a 'booty call'.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 February 2011):
I know what this guy wants - a quick fling before he slaps you on the butt and throws you aside.
He's not interested in a relationship - just the sex. And there is nothing on this planet that will make him change his mind about how he feels. If he wanted to have a relationship with you, you can be assured that he would pursue it. As it is, he just wants the sex, nothing else.
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reader, Abella +, writes (26 February 2011):
 he's offering you nothing but compliments. Bad sign.
Charming guys only interested in a short fling are heart breakers. Ask any woman married to a player. They will spell out the pain a player can cause.
A guy worth aspiring to want in your life is more gallant than that.
Look for a guy who acts respectfully around you. Gets the courage to ask you on a date. Is more interested in getting to know everything about you. Wants to know your future plants. Delights in laying out his plans for the future. Asks you on another date. Obviously likes you,
but does not act like an Octopus looking for sex on the first date. Wants you to meet his family.
You are proud to introduce him to your family
Your friends nod approvingly that he is good for you. Shows in a thousand ways that he cares deeply about you.
And makes it completely clear that he DOES want a genuine committed permanent faithful relationship.
Not a fleeting sexual relationship.
Always look at a man's actions, not just his words.
No matter how attractive he is physically. Just because a man is charming does not mean he has your interests at heart, especially since he is also clear that he is not interested in a relationship.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (26 February 2011):
 Why ? because he wants sex - casual sex. ( I don't think that if he is in your age range he would be content with kisses and cuddles, do not take that literally ). He added the disclaimer that he does not want a relationship, so you can get the picture and know what to exepect.
How do you make him want a relationship with you? You can't. Some times people do change their mind and ,while they get to know someone better, they grow much fonder of her /him even if they were not too smitten at the beginning, but this still implies curiosity ,the will of giving you a chance, to spend time with you and see what happens. This guys signals clearly that he does not want that, so I don't think you should waste time and thought on him.
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (26 February 2011):
 I don't understand your confusion...
It's really quite simple. He is telling you that he would like very much to sleep with you at least once.
As to "how do I get him to want a relationship w/ me?"
The answer is you don't.
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