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writes:Do men in theirs forties stay over night at their mums place on weekend?i am going out with 46yr old man for a few weeks now he always seems to be busy on a saturday when i questioned him about it he said his normally busy (shopping, seeing family etc..) and sometimes stay over night at his mums) when i called him yesterday his phone was switched off and he dosent reply to text messages this happens every saturday. Do men normally stay at their mums overnight?
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reader, mich33 +, writes (10 February 2009):
mich33 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni later learned he didnt stay the night at his mums but got back early and had an early night at his but he switched phone off
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2009): I agree with strawberry pops. Listen to your intuition. You know the guy only for a few weeks, when you ask him questions, he is answering in a very general way, so it looks that you should learn him a lot better. Ask you questions more specific, at this moment he might be not lying to you but also not telling the full truth.For me it feels very strange when you start dating, that you prefer to stay on a saterday evening together with your mother without a clear explanation.Ask him and don't be afraid for the answers.Good luck and hope the answer helped a bit.
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reader, misfitschik66  +, writes (8 February 2009):
 first of all does he live far from his mother?
if so maybe he just ants to spend time together
ALSO there is no problem with spending time with your mother maybe he just has a very good relationship with her and wants to have mom and son time ?
during the week he has time for you so in essence he spends like 1 night at his moms and 6 out of those days with you??
i had the same problem a while back with my boyfriend but i realized that it was only fair for his mother and him to demand time together considering there time is only so much now that he is older and she is too no one lives forever and family is the best thing in life
my step father goes to his mothers on the weekend just him and her spend time together
there is nothing unordinary about this it happends all the time its like spending a mom daughter day with your mom?
i go and spend the night at my moms sometimes just to spend alone time with her considering she is getting older and how i am too im moving on with my life and starting my own family so what time i do get i like to spend it with her
i hope my advice helps please update
misfitzchik66~~
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reader, eddie +, writes (8 February 2009):
 While there is nothing wrong with him staying at his mother's once in a while, it does sound a little too "carved in stone". The part about not being able to reach him is the part I find the most odd.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2009): Your alarm bells are ringing!!!!!!!!!!LISTEN to them.
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reader, pastfirst  +, writes (8 February 2009):
 There's something strange going on here.
Perhaps he has kids or a family he hasn't told you about.
(Telling him you'd like to accompany him one saturday, may be jumping the gun. You're probably not yet be ready to meet his mum).
He may be telling the truth but I think you should find out a bit more about his background.
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