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We haven't, but one day I would like to. How do I ask her about having a sexual relationship?

Q.   Hey guys i need some help with my relationship. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 1 month now and I want to someday have a sexual relationship with her. Can you please ignore my age for this but if you have to know I'm 15 and almost ...

A.   3 May 2011: I was actually about your age and at the same point in my relationship when things got sexual. It was actually our one month anniversary. We had kissed and made out with each other before but we were both still pretty shy about it. We were watching ... (read in full...)

She keeps walking in on me masturbating!

Q.   Need help? My sister walked in on me masterbating last month, now she keeps doing it. And i've been super carefull, but its like she knows i'm doing it and my bedroom door flys open, she's even walked in on me twice wheni've been in the shower. What ...

A.   1 May 2011: That's really odd. Is there any possible way that she knows that you are masturbating? Are you making noises of some sort maybe your bed rocking if not you personally. That doesn't explain how she would know to walk in on you in the shower though. ... (read in full...)

She keeps walking in on me masturbating!

Q.   Need help? My sister walked in on me masterbating last month, now she keeps doing it. And i've been super carefull, but its like she knows i'm doing it and my bedroom door flys open, she's even walked in on me twice wheni've been in the shower. What ...

A.   30 April 2011: Does she ever just walk into your room when you're not masturbating? Or is it like she specifically knows that you are and walks in? What does she usually say/do when finds you?... (read in full...)

Deviant sexual behavior?

Q.   So I've never had a girlfriend or have much experience in dating or sex. Anyway, I've started dating this girl for a few weeks now. Whenever I think about her, think about talking to her, when I call her, talk to her or sometimes just b...

A.   30 April 2011: I think it is actually quite normal. I know I personally have had an issue with the same kind of thing. I am younger than you but she is my first real girlfriend as well. I found that when we would hang out and such I would just get an erection and ... (read in full...)

She keeps walking in on me masturbating!

Q.   Need help? My sister walked in on me masterbating last month, now she keeps doing it. And i've been super carefull, but its like she knows i'm doing it and my bedroom door flys open, she's even walked in on me twice wheni've been in the shower. What ...

A.   30 April 2011: How old are you and your sister?... (read in full...)

Cheated on husband, now want him back?

Q.   Hullo there, I am a married woman with a 2 year old son who doesn't know what to do next. The thing is I cheated on my husband two times and I was caught out by my husband. I truly love him and badly need him in my life. He was angry at first, but ...

A.   29 April 2011: My girlfriend of two and half years once cheated on me to an extent. She made out with him but nothing more sexual than that and he initiated it with her. I was devastated and wasn't sure if I would be able to kiss her again. It seems like every ... (read in full...)

He stood up for me when other guys were harassing me. Does he like me?

Q.   Hey! Okay, I'm a little stumped as to what's going on in the head of this guy I like. I've been into him since 7th grade, 2 years ago, but he really hasn't talked to me until now. In the past, then and again he would add something to a conversation ...

A.   29 April 2011: It is quite possible that he may be interested in you. I know personally I'm the kind of guy that never stands for sexual harassment of girls and am quick to defend them. At the very least it sounds like he is a guy with good morals and it probably ... (read in full...)

We want to wait until we are married to do anything sexual. How do I fight off the temptation?

Q.   This is a continuation of my last question as it's on a completely different subject. If that makes sense. Basically my problem is this. Me and my girlfriend used to do sexual acts. Not actual sex and not even oral. I've fingered her and that's a...

A.   30 September 2008: I do have condoms. My brother gave me two before he left for college. I keep them in my room which is the only place we ever have the opportunity to do anything. That or the basement but my dad is usually down there. I don't want to be that rad... (read in full...)

We want to wait until we are married to do anything sexual. How do I fight off the temptation?

Q.   This is a continuation of my last question as it's on a completely different subject. If that makes sense. Basically my problem is this. Me and my girlfriend used to do sexual acts. Not actual sex and not even oral. I've fingered her and that's a...

A.   24 September 2008: You guys really arn't helping. What I need is help so that I can continue to be close to my girlfriend without being temped to touch her. I don't need people trying to convince me that I've made the wrong decision.... (read in full...)

We want to wait until we are married to do anything sexual. How do I fight off the temptation?

Q.   This is a continuation of my last question as it's on a completely different subject. If that makes sense. Basically my problem is this. Me and my girlfriend used to do sexual acts. Not actual sex and not even oral. I've fingered her and that's a...

A.   24 September 2008: That doesn't really help my resolve to abstain...... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

A.   19 September 2008: This is real. She really is having these problems and I really do need advice. Good advice. Not criticism from people that don't understand the situation. The reason why I've been giving so many details is that I feel like they're necessary to show ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

A.   18 September 2008: Have you not been reading any of this? She said that she'll give me her virginity on our honeymoon and she still really wants to marry me. She's terrified of the thought of me leaving. How would her religion stop her from dating me. Our relation... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

A.   16 September 2008: Alright. Update time. Yesterday she got into a fight with her mom. Her mom was a real wild child so she's very controlling. I'm not sure what all was said but they started arguing about how if her mom keeps trying to control her all it's going to... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

A.   15 September 2008: ChiRaven I would like to thank you for your words of encouragement. By the time I read this I had already made my decision. And you've convinced me that it was indeed the right one. Today she felt terrible and kept apologizing. She felt like she... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

A.   14 September 2008: Here's my latest update: Yesterday was both amazing and terrible. The day started off really good. We went to a wedding, celebrated my granddad's birthday and then had some time alone afterwards. When we were alone everything was great, she seem... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

A.   8 September 2008: Well I was right. We never did actually get any alone time today when we could've done something but she seems okay. Last night I got a huge break through though. I talked to her about everything and she said for the first time that she believed me. ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

A.   7 September 2008: Just a quick update on how things are going. On Tuesday night the past tried to press it's way into her mind but she was able to keep it out. On Wednesday I made her a cd with my voice recorded on it giving her all kinds of encouragement. Since I ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

A.   2 September 2008:  First of all I'd like to thank all of you for your support and suggestions. DiovanLestat, you've been loads of help. Even if you want to kick me. You don't need to apologize for ur book. It was very helpful and reassuring. Today I have good news ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

A.   1 September 2008: Time for that update I promised. Today was... A step forward but at the same time it was really shaky. We started off great. Kissing and slowly working our way up to touching her down there. I was really gentle and I kept her in the present and told ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

A.   31 August 2008: DiovanLestat Thank you for your advice. I'm actually spending time with her tomorrow and chances are that we'll start getting into that. I'll try your advice. I normally try to talk to her while were doing things. But I'm her first to do any of this... (read in full...)

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