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In love with my best friend - But he has a girlfriend!

Q.   I have a major issue, and it's pretty deep so here we go. I'm in love with my best guy friend. The real problem is.....I'm 18 and he's just now getting ready to turn 17. I just graduated from high school and we still talk and hang out but it's...

A.   20 June 2008: A relationship with your best friend could be amazing. I hear from couples all the time that they were best friends before they were in a relationship and how great it is. However, I was in love with my best guy friend for four years. I finally ... (read in full...)

I met a great guy but he's not my type... can I change that?

Q.   About a month and a half ago I met this really great guy. I mean, he's nice, sweet, funny and great to hang out with. The only problem is...I'm not really too attracted to him physically. He's not ugly by any means but I suppose he's just not my...

A.   20 June 2008: Thank you very much, DiovanLestat. I have read some of your advice on other questions at this site and you always seem helpful. I will certainly take the test when I have time. I do feel as though I am capable of dating...but I don't want to ... (read in full...)

I met a great guy but he's not my type... can I change that?

Q.   About a month and a half ago I met this really great guy. I mean, he's nice, sweet, funny and great to hang out with. The only problem is...I'm not really too attracted to him physically. He's not ugly by any means but I suppose he's just not my...

A.   20 June 2008: Alright, LazyGuy, here is my attempt to answer your questions: I think perhaps my reluctance to get intimate is rooted in my fear of rejection. I feel like if I am not perfect then the man that I am with will probably hate me and reject me. The ... (read in full...)

I met a great guy but he's not my type... can I change that?

Q.   About a month and a half ago I met this really great guy. I mean, he's nice, sweet, funny and great to hang out with. The only problem is...I'm not really too attracted to him physically. He's not ugly by any means but I suppose he's just not my...

A.   19 June 2008: I would love to seek help however therapy and therapists cost a lot of money that I don't have, and neither does my family. Also I would have to be open about it with my family and I am not ready to do that. ... (read in full...)

I think my teacher is flirting with me.

Q.   I KNOW THERE'S LOADS TO READ HERE - I DIDN'T PLAN ON THIS BEING SO LONG BUT I REALLY NEED ADVICE HERE AND I'D APPRECIATE IT SO MUCH IF SOME OF YOU WOULD TAKE THE TIME TO READ IT AND OFFER YOUR VIEWS. THANK YOU! This is going to sound like the ...

A.   19 June 2008: If he IS flirting with you, it seems innocent enough and nothing sexual/romantic. Perhaps he has just picked you out as a favorite. As much as teachers don't want you to believe it, they all have favorites. He may see something in you that he ... (read in full...)

Blonde, skinny, and beautiful--so why can't I find a great guy?

Q.   im young, blonde, skinny, and beautiful.(i'm not trying to be conceited) but i cant seem to find good a guy...im not sure if this is my fault or i just have bad luck?...

A.   19 June 2008: Not all men are attracted to skinny blondes, first off. Men also look for women with good personality too, not just good looks. I'm not saying you don't have a good personality but I am pointing out that men aren't as shallow as you may think they... (read in full...)

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