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female
age
41-50,
*ardia
writes:Firstly, this is in a 1 year old relationship. My boyfriend said if there's something I need within our relationship that all I need to do is ask. But I feel awkward asking for affection and attention. Secondly, I don't text incessantly but when I have something to share with him, I just do it. Too often I don't get a response. Especially to the innuendo or racy texts that he used to reply with responses that still make me blush when I revisit them. I miss itAre these typical communication patterns for guys?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2011): its okay.there is nothing to worry about.. Happens with me almost daily..hahaha..It doesnt make me love him any less and neither does it happen from his side.Yes I do ask why he didnt reply.. but not in a complaining tone.. I do it happily.. coz that time we are talking and he is spending time with me..!to make sure that it doesnt happen too much.. I ask a few times what he was doing.. that I was missing him n was thinking of him.. since he is at work so instead of complains I try to make him feel loved.. and as for the complains :D I put them in front in between our talks but not stressing too much on them.......sometimes I dont text him at all if I am feeling bad about him not replying the same way... and that makes him come back.. coz ofcourse he would notice it! it feels good then that he is missing you!!He even asks me sometimes that you didnt reply.. you didnt call today............ see dont be too serious about this... dont be too hard on the two of you..if he is at work he is not playing sms-sms anyhow........and something that really really realllllllly works is.. unconditional giving..!!! just write to him.. message him call him without any expectation... just coz you wana do it.. coz you wana hear him.. and share a laugh together.. or just to tel him you love him... BELIEVE ME.. you would get it back a 1000 times.. its nature's law... and it keeps you away from all tension and thinking and time waste...have a strong belief in your relationship.. in your guy.. and give him your love....... till ofcourse you start to see some negative signs which I wish never happens with you...so just take it easy... and enjoy being in love.. it is beautiful... and you are lucky!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (20 September 2011):
 Commumication skills are the biggest thing we males lack. We might be able to fix an airplane in flight with some duct tape and a pen knife but telling you how we feel is like Trying to swim in jello.
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