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*mira555
writes:well that's the whole story , i lived a love story for about 4 years, then i've been cheated on by my boyfriend with my best friend, which made me feel the worst feeling in my life !!i was literally broken , then came the new boyfriend , he was like an angel sent by god to support me , he just supported me with all the strength he had , he loved me so much and he didn't ask me for anything back ! .. he was the perfect guy , he is handsome , sweet , adorable and kind that i couldn't believe there are guys like him ,, so i have fallen in love with him .. it was really great ! .. then came the drama ! " his best friend " they are like a glue together they have been together for a long long time .. " best friends literally" when i saw him for the 1st time it was like cool ! .. then came the moment when i added him on msn , i was chatting with him for hours and hours without being bored, nor him , he is sexy , charming, adorable guy and he wasn't flirting with me at all but all the time i was telling him how sweet n adorable he is ...a short time passed then we started to talk about sexual scientific issue .. as i studied some of them ,, i didn't know it was his " weakness point " but it was ! .. then came the question " what's the craziest thing yo have ever done " ... i told him that when my friend " female" teased me and punched me on my butt and told me you haven't got a flat stomach and your breasts are straighten up , so i took a photo and i sent it to her , n she were ready to turn lesbian for the sake of this photo , he laughed and he told me then " what should i do for ur friend to give me this photo " ... and here is come the sparkwe started to talk like drunks .. n then we paused n said " what the hell are we doin !!" n he told me that he is goin to leave n i left too then he blocked n deleted me from msn , few days after that he re-activated his facebook account " which he deactivated before " n i was online n he was online n he started to talk n it ended we both again on msn , then we got more intimate n i shared some photos " sexy ones" n he was shocked cause he never knew i got all this beauty covered under long skirts and tall sleeves shirts , n it ended with me and him dreamin of each others in wild dreams i told him about one n he told me about one ! .. now he is hangin' out with my bf today ! And sure he feels guilty me too i feel guilty , but i can't help fallin for him ! tell me what i should do ... tho i still love ma bf !!
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reader, amira555 +, writes (17 November 2011):
amira555 is verified as being by the original poster of the question i am sure he isn't a spy . cause ma boyfriend is treatin as usual in agood way , i dunno what's wrong with me and why i am doin this though i know it will waste alot of blood at the end of the story , this myt be strange bt i know how it will end that i will end with abig hurt, in the same way i know that i am cheater by what i am doin , i know talkin dirty behind ma bf back will end in a bad way ! , i am tryin to stop i dun wanna hurt him and i love him !
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2011): i'm sorry to say ,but the fact is that you have emotionally cheated on your bfcheating is not just sleeping with someone.but when you do or talk something at the back of your partner which ,if he sees /gets to know he will be hurt and angry..it is cheating.even playing games, making your partner jealous is wrong to some extent .you know how it hurt when your ex boyfriend cheated on you and now you have done it yourself.but the good news here is -YOU CAN STOP RIGHT HERE AND CORRECT IT!if you take it as a joke which extended into a talk which sort of aroused you both .you do get tempted when you see someone attractive.however that does not mean you LOVE that personin your case MORE OVER ,he is your bf's BEST FRIEND!..and on his part he's done something really dirty by cheating his friend ...a guy who does not value his friendship and cheats his best friend who also happens to be a great boyfriend to you..such a guy can never be trusted .you have a good relationship.and if you go any further with this new guy,he'll never be faithful nor will he trust you.because whats happening now is all on a bad note.only a relationship which begins out of trust and FAITHFULNESS ,will remain so!if your bf were really horrible and his friend came along sweeping you off your feet..thats different .and of all, YOU are only to blame because you wanted this!you admit to saying things like how cute and adorable he is right from the beginning.all you need is a matchstick to start a fire not a whole matchbox.i suggest that you better talk to this guy and tell him to zip up about the whole thing .that it was a mistake and carryon with your bf,or 2.)confess to your bf that you were gently flirting with his friend (i have a feeling that he already knows.maybe this guy is being a loyal friend MAYBE )but tell him that you don't have any such feelings for that guyor 3.)break up with your bf ..leave him alone to find someone worth his loveand after the break up i don't need to advice you .you're free to do anything you wish to. :)there's no point feeling GUILTY.are you feeling guilty because you followed your heart and cheated or because you love him? theres a huge difference in the two. if you don't love him/feel that spark then its better you break up with your bf.if your guilty because you really love him then try your luck at being a little foxy ,hide your little crime and carry on with your relationship.but mind you ..i have a strong doubt his friend is being a spy here..so if you take the wrong step of hiding instead of confessing then the damage will already be done!
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