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writes:my friends have been saying i'm gay because i broke up with this girl because she told me she loved me the second day we went out i am very sensitive and compassionate am i gay for breaking up with her? my friends said i should've told her i love her just to get sex.
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reader, dss310  +, writes (18 August 2008):
no you aren't gay for breaking up with our girlfriend.....you are gay because you want to have sex with men. So here's my question.... do you want to have sex with men??????
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reader, maddox08 +, writes (26 February 2008):
 No your not gay dude. Your just a nice guy
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reader, Cherriepie +, writes (26 February 2008):
 No your not gay, hun, your just a nice guy. But it does sound like you freaked out when she said she loved you. Were you afraid she would do something scary after that? just becuase a girl says she loves you doesnt mean you have to run screaming...and that's probaby why your friends called you gay.
Next time a girl says she love you take it as the greatest compliment and approval of you, even if you dont love her back the same way. This is not necesarilty about refusing sex, but getting scared of going further in a relationship. The sex part can happen when you are comfortable enough with her.
The only person who can declare you gay is yourself. Dont listen to any of these dummies calling you names, when all it is they are doing is acting immature.
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reader, daisydaresyou  +, writes (24 February 2008):
Good grief no, you are a decent person that's all! Your friends are dumb and need to grow up. From what you've said, you are much more likely to end up in a good, happy, satisfying relationship then they are so keep trusting yourself and ignore those losers.PS I would run away too if someone said they loved me after two days...kinda full on if you ask me!
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reader, Devilish Angel +, writes (24 February 2008):
 You are not gay. Your friends are dumb. Your girlfriend was rushing it a bit when she told you she loved you on the second day of going out. I'm glad you didn't tell it back to her because that means you put more stock into the L word than most of the guys in these modern times. Love is not to be confused with infatuation or lust.
Once again, you are not gay. You're just honest.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (24 February 2008):
 Hi
Well your friends are a strange bunch then. Pretty nasty to tell someone you love them just to get sex. And whoever loved someone 2 days after they go out? Sounds a bit worrying to me, i would be running away too!
If you didnt wanna go out with her, i dont see why that automatically makes you gay?
Or have you not explained more things that are relavant?
C xxxxx
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (24 February 2008):
 No i do not think you are gay, it is because you are not ready to commit yourself to a full time relationship as yet, i think your girl friend was a bit hasty, telling you that she loved you after two days, i think that is enough to frighten any one off a relationship,continue in your life has you are now and one day you will meet the girl that you will feel will be the one, do not take any notice of your mates, your doing alright as you are.
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