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writes:A general question for all males. How can a female give a good oral sex to a male?
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (16 May 2010):
 Every guy is different and the best thing you can do is get him comfortable with you so that during the act he will talk to you about what he likes or what he wants you to do. Thats the best way to custom fit the best oral sex experience to your partner without having to try to many things that they don't like. The same thing goes for guys giving oral to girls, its all about the communication.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): im not a guy but my boyfriend likes wen i suck the tip of his dick only and strok his dick at the same time he loves it ..
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reader, daletom +, writes (16 May 2010):
You have some good advice here.
In spite of what popular literature, and the porn industry, wants you to believe - oral sex isn't necessarily the greatest thing a guy can experience! I'm a guy who often has difficulty climaxing from oral sex, so if he doesn't respond with mattress-thrashing, scream-into-the-pillow orgasms DO NOT assume it's because you're doing anything wrong!
Yeah, make sure your lips cover your teeth. And definitely make sure he's clean before you start - if his hygene makes you at all hesitant, he'll sense your reluctance and be turned off. Use your lips, mouth and tongue to gently wrap around and stimulate his erection. Pay attention to his non-verbal cues for what he finds pleasurable - and be aware that this is likely to change a bit as he moves toward climax. I prefer a firmer touch as I get close.
Some guys don't want their balls touched at all, but I like gentle caresses and fondling of the genitals, inner thighs, perineum, and anus. Shortly before orgasm, a lubricated finger just barely in the rectum is awesome. (Yes, it sounds gross and you definitely need to wash as soon as he's finished. A LOT more people actually enjoy this when it's done right, than will ever ADMIT that they enjoy it.)
He may grab your head with his hands and try to guide your motions. Some women supposedly like to be forcefully directed like this, but let him know if he's being too rough!
At the end, I don't care whether you spit or swallow, but please stay firmly on me until I finish twitching - and then it's awesome if you kiss me.
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reader, riv +, writes (16 May 2010):
Well first of all insist he has a shower prior to the sex and uses copious soap on his genital and anal areas before rinsing it off.
It will help you to enjoy it if he smells totally clean - just the whiff of maleness from his sweat / glans penis / anal area . ( And we men love it if the woman enjoys it too - after all, it means we may get repeats..... )
Then get him to kneel astride you so that his knees are just under your arms and you can feel his butt a bit before he lowers himself so that you can take the tip of his penis into your mouth.
As far as possible just use your lips ( not teeth ) to grip his penis and the tip of your tongue to stimulate the tiny opening at the end of his penis.
He is responsible for the rhythmic movements of his penis in and out ( inside your mouth, back and forth between your moist but gripping lips ) .
It might well increase his pleasure if he is able to hold his butt high enough so that while his penis is in your mouth you can caress his testicles - DON'T SQEEZE just hold fairly firmly - with one hand while fingering his anus ( one or two fingers with the other... ) .
Don't have a hang up about swallowing the semen. If you think you won't like it ask him to pull out just before coming and to ejaculate instead on your breasts and lips.
At that stage he will be pretty exhausted and move back into the face to face / penis to vaginal area position. he can take some of the sperm onto his tongue / lips and share it with you to see if you like ( or can acquire ) the taste ....
[ See another of my posts for how to enjoy
69 / "soixante-neuf" - a great oral sex variation, especially for women who appreciate the male butt !! ]
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2010): Wet, sensual, some eye contact, vary the angle at which you suck, do it to feel it in your mouth and take his come, as well as give pleasure (know full well that it is!).
PS. sensitivity varies, but assume it feels great anyway, when you're doing it. It's a confidence thing.
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reader, LilPixie  +, writes (15 May 2010):
 I'm not a guy but anyway...
The one thing you must never do is to use your teeth!
It's hard to explain how to give a guy good oral because everyone is different.
You could ask him to guide you and tell you what feels good. If you wanna surprise him with it, start off slow. Experiment a bit and see if he reacts to certain things (he might move his body slightly or his breathing may get faster/ heavier if something feels really good) and take it from there.
Thats my piece of advice, i'll leave the detailed explanations to the guys :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2010): Spit on your hand, so whenyour sucking and rubbing your hand is wet and warm, I know it sounds gross, but it's not for the guy.
Also I'd say make sure your not tired, or it's a chore
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