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She's been dating someone for 6 months already, but I want her back!

Q.   I've had a crush with this girl for 3 years in high school since my sophomore year. We both have several classes together during the 1st year and our chemistry developed pretty fast. We often glanced at each other but we both turned away abruptly as ...

A.   30 May 2008: Well all I can say is just wait and see how things are coming along for her and this guy that shes with. Maybe shes did like you before but got fed up because you didnt say anything to her which is why she moved on. I think she might still feel ... (read in full...)

Been sleeping with my friends father. What do you think I should do?

Q.   Hi cupid, I am in a really hard situation. ok my best friend and I are really close we do everything together. I am 16 and she is 17. I really don't have much of a family of my own my dad left us and my mum spends more time at the pub getting ...

A.   29 May 2008: Your are 16 years old. Be sensible. You know you are doing the wrong thing. Have you ever considered the consequences that your actions can have. You could ruin the great friendship between you and your friend. You could ruin the relationship this ... (read in full...)

I want to tell her what she means to me!!!

Q.   Hey im 16, and there is this girl that i really love at school more than anything in the world. There are a lot of things that make me think that i like her (We both play soccer, and in one of the games my toenail got ripped off and went to the E.R. ...

A.   27 May 2008: Awwww! Your feelings for her are really sweet but I suggest you take your time especially if shes a good friend of yours because if you tell her and if sadly she doesnt feel the same way it could destroy the great friendship that you have now. Try ... (read in full...)

I keep crying knowing that he hates me and believes I would want him to go to jail... but I did not mean to call the police, the row degenerated!

Q.   My bf of 5 years broke up with me. A week ago we had a row about the washing load. It was such a trivial matter but the argument escalated and we started hitting each other. I asked him to leave my studio flat by which he kept refusing so to scar...

A.   26 May 2008: You are in a bit of a mess I can see. Okay now what you need to do is calm down. You need to understand that he is very hurt by what you did and is taking it out by being angry with you. He will be angry for some time so give him that time so that ... (read in full...)

I'm only with my wife for the sake of my children. I don't want to hurt anyone, but...

Q.   Hi everyone, I have a big issue in my life right now, I am 45 years old and have been married for 15 years and have 2 wonderful teenage daughters, the thing is i no longer love my wife and we do not get on at all, i have stayed in the family home ...

A.   25 May 2008: Well I think you should have told her that you didnt want any more children before starting anything but now I guess its a bit late but maybe you can talk to her about it now. Get everything sorted out. Tell her what you want and listen to what she ... (read in full...)

Has anyone had to get over a massive betrayal?

Q.   Please help me. I'm sorry for the long post but PLEASE read it and try to help me. Has anyone had to get over a massive betrayal. Is it possible. I have been seeing "T" on and off for about a year and nine months. Our relationship was goin...

A.   25 May 2008: You,ve been through a lot but all I can say is all you need is some time to get over what he did. You trusted him and he broke that trust so of course it will naturally take some time for you to trust him again. Although I wont blame him either I ... (read in full...)

I went off my teacher but I'm falling for him again!!

Q.   Hey!! Ok now i had been in love with my teacher for about 9 months and felt as if it was ever gonna end.The school had loads of holidays and i thought i would get over him but i just never!But then we had two weeks off and thought i was going to...

A.   25 May 2008: Sounds to me like infatuation. That is the truth. Just try and take your mind off him. Dont be thinking about him constantly it,ll only make your feelings stronger. At one point in their lives all teenagers go through this stage of falling in "love" ... (read in full...)

I can't get anything right

Q.   i'm 18 and i just cant get things right at the moment i feel like everyone hates me which i know they do i'm trying to dry pots anhd my sister trys to grab a knife off me by kicking me in my privets she screems and shouts at me and my parents blame ...

A.   25 May 2008: I would suggest you sit down with your parents and sister and try and talk things out. If that doesnt help maybe you should consider going for counselling which might just get you the help that you need. You say you need someone in life to love and ... (read in full...)

I'm only with my wife for the sake of my children. I don't want to hurt anyone, but...

Q.   Hi everyone, I have a big issue in my life right now, I am 45 years old and have been married for 15 years and have 2 wonderful teenage daughters, the thing is i no longer love my wife and we do not get on at all, i have stayed in the family home ...

A.   25 May 2008: Well I think you should just be honest with your wife and tell her that it's just not working for you anymore. Be clear and to the point tell her that you have met someone else whom you love before she finds out from someone else which could cause ... (read in full...)

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