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Need help with online dating.

Q.   Has anyone got experience of on line dating? I have met 3,but they have all been less than truthful. Professional was unemployed. Had 1 child was really 4. Single turned out to be in a relationship who enjoyed the thrill. Does it ever get better?...

A.   6 November 2011: If something seems to good to be true,it generally is.... (read in full...)

Feel like I'm falling apart. Am I a fool to think happiness could be mine?

Q.   I have just split up from my partner of nearly 12 years. We have 2 young children. I had stopped loving my partner many years ago although i only told him it was about 2 years ago. It took me a long time to admit it to myself and even longer to ...

A.   6 November 2011: You are building up a picture which may be totally different in real life. If this guy was such a catch,do you not think he would have been caught by a woman closer to him? You may be a bit gullible right now and it would be far better to get used ... (read in full...)

I'm gutted! I can't believe that after 8 weeks he's moved on!

Q.   My ex of three years finished with me in a nasty way in june - by changing his locks on me. we were continuously arguing about his children etc and he said he couldn't take any more. after a month he wanted to start seeing me so we both decided on ...

A.   4 November 2011: Some people are very shallow and take the word love very lightly. I do n`t believe it is possible to fall out of love and move on in 8 weeks,unless the love was n`t deep enough to begin with. Uploading photos of yourself with guys is more likely to ... (read in full...)

Do I tell my ex about the rebound relationship?

Q.   My boyfriend of two and half years and I took a small break, not because we didn't love eachother but because of the long distance between us. AFter we broke up, I had a rebound relationship that lasted about 4 weeks. I broke it off rather quicly ...

A.   4 November 2011: To some,withholding that would be just as bad as lying. If he cannot accept it,then its better to know where your relationship is leading now,rather than later. Things like this have the strangest ways of surfacing and they usually do.... (read in full...)

Do guys eventually give up if the girl wont have sex with them?

Q.   do players get turned off by girls who don't want to have sex with them straightaway? surely at some point they lose interest and give up on a girl who won't give them what they want?...

A.   3 November 2011: Yes they will if its all they want from you.... (read in full...)

How to play the player ?

Q.   how do you play a player at his own game ..?but when u like the guy and trying not to show feelings ..when ur just pure (friends with benifits lol ). guys n women hu have or are players please to answer thanks...

A.   3 November 2011: You will be the one who hurts at the end of it. Dont attempt it.... (read in full...)

After he walked out, I joined a dating site and when he found out, he dumped me!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend (ex now) had an argument,and as normal he walked out. The day after I joined a dating site. Only a day I know, but we was not together. He has found out and now dumped me. Its the longest we have ever broke up. He says he does ...

A.   3 November 2011: I think you need to sit down and think about what it implies to both of you as separate people. You probably are n`t heartbroken like you think you are,just shocked and living in fear of being without someone in your life. You do n`t spare a thought ... (read in full...)

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