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... Send *onderlove19 a private message | | | *onderlove19's profile:Hi! A little update, I suppose its way overdue. My name is Jem. I'm 22 and a nutritional advisor. All I want to do is help people. In any way I can. I believe the world can be a better place if we learn to help eachother, and support one another. I've been interested in psychology, philosophy and spirituality myself for as long as i can remember, and i love healing therapies! I'm living with my boyfriend of the last year, and after my own trials and tribulations through broken hearts and torn up relationships, i believe i've learned a lot, and have grown a lot stronger through it all. Experience is the best teacher :)
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Sex addiction, does it exist?
Q. Does anyone really believe in sex addiction? Ive always been one to say people use the word addiction to make things look a little better and a little less their fault...But all my life ive always been fond of sex, ALOT. Its almost as if i cant say ...
A. 10 September 2011: Sex Addiction is like any other addiction. Its the pleasure you get from it, the chemical reaction that you are addicted to. I've experienced being with a sex addict, and its not an easy thing to go through. He would constantly punish himself and ... (read in full...)
I'm sooooo scared that I've gone down the wrong road.
Q. I've been brought up in a Christan background. I have a lovely family, they do not drink or swear, just a normal loving family. I've been with my fiance for 3 years. I'm sooooo scared that I've gone down the wrong road. Is this what god has ...
A. 12 February 2009: I'll give you an answer, but you're probably not gonna like it! I'm christian too but was brought up with a very philosophical mum and I always loved that, but anyway, you meeting this guy is a challenge to you. You cannot do the wrong thing by ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy to still miss my ex this much?
Q. Hi. I'm struggling with something I cant get out of my head. My ex. He wasnt the best thing for me, and the guy I'm with now is amazing, and I love him so much, but my ex is still in my mind constantly. Not in any sexual or relationshippy way ...
A. 25 December 2008: thanks for the replies girls. they were rele helpful. thing is, its not so much the relationship we had i miss, its the friendly times, the times when we werent going out. Im so in love with the guy im with now and i wanna spend my life with him. He ... (read in full...)
My friend keeps getting erections around me. Is it something I'm doing?
Q. Well, my best friend, who's male, is always getting erections around me and it makes me feel a little awkward. We're past that point where we're freshmen in high school, or in middle school, etc. and it would be happening all the time, but it still ...
A. 24 December 2008: Easy, you're a sexy woman! He is a man after all. Men have reactions around women they think are sexy and beautiful. Its a huge compliment! I know how you feel tho. Its quite embarrassing not just for the guy, but for you too.
Its normal. and its ... (read in full...)
Can women and men just be friends?
Q. does anyone think men and women can just be friends?...
A. 24 December 2008: Depends. I could never be friends with men. Tried to be friends with my boyfriends former best friend and he ended up hitting on me several times, before I finally said something to my boyfriend and he hit him! But I suppose if you trusted them and ... (read in full...)
People Are Using Me to Get Ahead at My Work
Q. Hiya. This is more of a work issue than a relationship one, but still a big one. See, recently I started working as a waitress in my uncles hotel, and word got out to some of the other waiters about the fact that the owner of the hotel is related ...
A. 13 December 2008: Thank you all! Really helpful advice :) xxxx... (read in full...)
I am not a sexual person and think sex is nasty.
Q. I've been dating a guy for a month and to say I am not a sexual person. I think sex is not a fun (nasty)thing and I really don't want to have it. He on the other hand is into sex and gets horny in seconds just by being next to me in bed when I dont ...
A. 10 December 2008: I can answer that. I feel the same way you do, always have. My boyfriend is really understanding as we've been together for three years but whenever he even looks at me he gets aroused. And he hasnt been the only boyfriend who has had this reaction ... (read in full...)
Is this also a form of abuse?
Q. I was wondering if throwing someone on the floor, or pulling them by the hair, or putting your hand over their mouth so they can't breathe, or even pushing your head against theirs so it feels like their nose will break is as bad as slapping or ...
A. 10 December 2008: Of course this is as bad as slapping and punching. Too many women suffer domestic abuse in a society thats supposed to be a smart and more educated one. Any form of abuse, anything your partner may do without your consent is unacceptable. Trust me ... (read in full...)
Lately he doesn't text me back, should I be upset or just get over him?
Q. I recently started to text this guy. My friend gave me his number and she said he is really nice, so I started to text him and have been for about a month now, but I found out that he is a player. But when we talks he calls me sexy and baby and all ...
A. 30 November 2008: Oh my god, you are me five years ago! I know exactly what you're talking about. When I was fourteen, i was extremely shy. Then suddenly I found out that this guy from my school liked me. I was so nervous and so exited because he was actually the ... (read in full...)
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