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I hate my home and I want to live elsewhere! What can I do?
Q. i hate living at home...and the thought of coming home makes me feel ill...my mum and dad are forever blaming things on me especially mum...even if its her fault...there soo many rules otherwise i get grounded i do loads of chores which i have to ...
A. 14 November 2006: oh and www.talktoacounsellor.co.uk might be useful. I only had a quick look at it but who knows! (And its all in the comfort of your computer chair, all over interent and stuff so your mum needn't know if you know how to wipe the history files on ... (read in full...)
He carries on with his ex wife bc of the kids. But he hasn't even told her of our engagement! I feel so mopey. Any advice?
Q. My partner is still in touch with his ex because of their kids. I hate it when she phones, he takes the phone into another room and i can hear him laughing. It nearly drives me mad but he says he can't be horrible to her because of me. I'm not ...
A. 14 November 2006: Ok, first of all, put your feet into the ex-wifes shoes. She has lost her husband and in many ways her son. Imagine the person you loved most in the world had to leave and live with another mother figure becuse of a breakup. its not easy for her i'm ... (read in full...)
She hangs out with the wrong crowd and ignores me when I try to help! Advice please!
Q. hi i have a friend who is always hanging out with the wrong crowd but every time i try to help she doesn't talk to me for ages. what else can i do? ...
A. 14 November 2006: Ok before i can help i cud do with a little more info sweetie. When you say "wrong" crowd in what sense is this? I think you mean like i dunno...the crowd that do stupid things and get into trouble but it could be intepretated as "i dont like that ... (read in full...)
I hate my home and I want to live elsewhere! What can I do?
Q. i hate living at home...and the thought of coming home makes me feel ill...my mum and dad are forever blaming things on me especially mum...even if its her fault...there soo many rules otherwise i get grounded i do loads of chores which i have to ...
A. 14 November 2006: Hey, ya know you can always come round and stay for a bit if you want to. You know who i am and you know where i live. I know it won't cure the problem but it might help ease the pain when things get really stressful and even if it only helps a ... (read in full...)
I hate my home and I want to live elsewhere! What can I do?
Q. i hate living at home...and the thought of coming home makes me feel ill...my mum and dad are forever blaming things on me especially mum...even if its her fault...there soo many rules otherwise i get grounded i do loads of chores which i have to ...
A. 14 November 2006: Hey, ya know you can always come round and stay for a bit if you want to. You know who i am and you know where i live. I know it won't cure the problem but it might help ease the pain when things get really stressful and even if it only helps a ... (read in full...)
This will be our first time...how can I make it as painless as possible for her???
Q. My girlfriend and I are both virgins and have been dating for almost 9 months now. We really care about each other, and although we haven't exactly discussed sex, we know that we are both ready to take the leap together. I know that girls experience ...
A. 23 October 2006: Use a good lubrication (like KY jelly) and just be gentle with her,No hard, over the top thrusting or anything, take it cal mand easy and things should be great. You sound like a loving, mature person and have clearly thought things through well - ... (read in full...)
Hanging with the old skool!
Q. I went to a skool for 2 years but then i moved to a different one. Now I have moved up to high school i am meeting up with all my old friends from my old school. Especially one boy. We were really gud freinds and stilla re but when one of my mates ...
A. 23 October 2006: Well if you wanted to stop thinking about him then hang out with other friends, go party, do hobbies you like but remember if you want to keep him as a friend you can't completely ignore him as that would eliminate your friendship let alone love ... (read in full...)
What does oral sex mean?
Q. everyone keeps talking about having oral sex! i dont know what it is! my bf even asked me if i wanted to have oral sex and i couldnt say yes because i dont know what it is! what is it?...
A. 23 October 2006: I know that you cannot immediately get pregnant through oral sex but sperm are determined little things and if a cum occured near to the vagina there is a small, but granted, very small chance of getting pregneant. It has happened before but i ... (read in full...)
What does oral sex mean?
Q. everyone keeps talking about having oral sex! i dont know what it is! my bf even asked me if i wanted to have oral sex and i couldnt say yes because i dont know what it is! what is it?...
A. 19 October 2006: oral sex is sexual activity but not actual intercourse. oral can mean fingering, playing with bf-gfs genitals/boobs or sucking the penis e.t.c. Basically most things sexual except actual "sex" (penetration of the penis into the vagina) But really ... (read in full...)
Hanging with the old skool!
Q. I went to a skool for 2 years but then i moved to a different one. Now I have moved up to high school i am meeting up with all my old friends from my old school. Especially one boy. We were really gud freinds and stilla re but when one of my mates ...
A. 19 October 2006: um. I dont actually really understand what yuor asking for hun. Did you want to know how to hook up with him, stop thinking about him, stop him being touchy feely? I' m a little confused here. What is he just saying? Said the same thing? Would you ... (read in full...)
My period is late and there's no way I could be pregnant..so what else is going on?
Q. Ok, this is probably nothing to worry about but thought I'd get some feed back as this is a highly unusual occorance for me. I am nearly 2 weeks late for my period. ('Ah she's pregnant' I hear you say....) No, absolutely no chance of that a...
A. 11 October 2006: Are you a thin person? I know that periods can stop when your under 8 or 9 stone or something like that. If you're sure you're not pregnant (Are you sure? I'm not saying you're the kind of person who would but maybe you went out clubbing or ... (read in full...)
He spends time with his ex and round her mom's house!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been been together for a year now. But when we first started seeing eachother, he was in a relationship with another woman. He stopped seeing her so that he could be with me. Everything was going good, or so i thought, a ...
A. 11 October 2006: Ii would be great to hear from you when things are sorted
Wolf Paws -x-... (read in full...)
He spends time with his ex and round her mom's house!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been been together for a year now. But when we first started seeing eachother, he was in a relationship with another woman. He stopped seeing her so that he could be with me. Everything was going good, or so i thought, a ...
A. 11 October 2006: It seem clear to me that your boyfriend still has feelings for his ex, yet the fact he is telling her he doesn't want to ruin his relationship with you shows that he DOES love you an wishes to remain loyal to you. Ofcourse you are not wrong for ... (read in full...)
Do we stay together for the kids or should I just pack this in?
Q. I am 39, have 3 children under 10, one from a previous marriage. I live with my partner and he is the most ignorant person I have ever met. I got pregnant 10 months afte meeting him and I didn't think it was fair to freeze him out of our lives, so I ...
A. 11 October 2006: Well, as for the bit about the children i know that when my parents split up (i was 12) I was more relieved than anything. Believe me, everyone says that they stay together for the childs sake but even though after divorce money is scarce, children ... (read in full...)
Im always so incecure and think it stems from a guy friend I really like!!
Q. Please help, my insecurities are driving me crazy!!! I have noticed that in the last year or so, I have this tendency to be needed to be told that I am loved every single minute of the day. If that doesn't happen, I get really insecure and down on ...
A. 11 October 2006: I Hope This Will Cheer You Up-
Every night , someone thinks about you before they go to sleep,
At least fifteen people in this world love you.
The only reason someone would ever hate you is
because they want to be just like you!
There are... (read in full...)
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