He talks about money and costs a lot, is he testing me?
Q. I’m confused and would appreciate your help. I have been seeing this guy for 2 months and our dates started with walking, coffee, one time out for drinks couple of lunches and most of the time at his place, either he is cooking or most of the time ...
A. 27 January 2018: I am not understanding the mental abuse that he's taking you through. He's mentally slapping your hand everytime you go to an expensive restaurant. Go to a Waffle House or an IHOP and let him pay the bill then see what he says. I think he's using ... (read in full...)
Every relationship I've been in, every person I've ever dated, has always left me for someone else!
Q. I feel like I've been finally worn down by constant romantic rejection and heartache. Every relationship I've been in, every person I've ever dated, has always left me for someone else. My ex with whom I was with for years, left me for someone e...
A. 3 April 2016: I can relate to your issue, in a relationship I was too suffocating, too bossey, too busy, too jealous, too mean, too tall, and not black enough that's when I said, Enough! I realized that I can't be with someone who does not value who I am. And ... (read in full...)
Thoughts regarding retrograde jealousy....is a person's past really not any of the current relationship's business?
Q. An observation from a straight guy: I CALL BULLSHIT on people who claim that lovers are not accountable for how their sexual past is non of their current relationship's business. What if you only ever had one girlfriend, and before she met y...
A. 15 December 2012: It seems that you are NOT ready to settle down. She don't owe you an apology for living her life before she met you. You are the one having second thoughts or cold feet. I would say maybe you should go do all those things that you feel you would ... (read in full...)
How can I keep a friendship with her and be OK with her being with someone else?
Q. I'm a staight woman who has fallen in love with my female best friend. We met in high school over 13 years ago. After a year of friendship we had feelings for each other and started a secret sexual relationship. Now we are both mothers she's been ...
A. 8 December 2012: You said she's been married and divorced and that you both are mothers. It would seem that she and you have moved on but are holding on to the fact that you two were friends for 13 years. You have to either jump back into the platonic friendsh... (read in full...)
We met up, got a room & had sex! No protection.
Q. I had unprotected sex with a woman over the weekend. We just met up, got a room and we ended up having sex. The issue is that I finished inside her and she didn't think much about it either. I did mention to her that I was about to finish and she ...
A. 5 April 2012: Ok so what is it that you are worried about std's or her being pregnant? Just keep in touch with her for a couple of months and find out all the questions that's running in your head unanswered. Get Tested and when your breath turns all steamy have ... (read in full...)
Should I just have a one night stand?
Q. I'm a female in my mid twenties and haven't had sex in over eight months. I am constantly horny and masturbate almost everyday. I have never had a one night stand with a guy because I always feared stds and what not as well as my reputation because ...
A. 5 April 2012: Don't get drunk because you will forget about it in the morning as if nothing happened and start feeling horny and masturbate again... loll If you as a consenting adult want a one night stand make sure you have your condoms. Even though you live in ... (read in full...)
B/f has pics of his ex saved on his computer and says that he still loves her, but in a way where he cares about and worries about her
Q. Hi. I have been with my bf for 18 months and he recently told me he still loves his ex, but in a way where he cares about and worries about her. He tells me I am his future etc. This initially caused some tension between us but I want to believe ...
A. 5 April 2012: 18 months is a longtime to be saving pictures of your ex., especially on his hard drive when he can view them everrrrrrrydayyyyyyyy...ugh! There has to be a reason why he hasn't moved on. I think deep down you know what the reason is. It's time you ... (read in full...)
I want more interaction between my ex wife, the kids and my girlfriend
Q. Back story: After a really dead marriage, I left the family domicile 2 yrs ago, where my ex and 2 younger children still reside. After a few months of living apart, my ex and I made a casual attempt at getting back together without the knowledge of ...
A. 6 January 2011: I believe when parents divorce they become single parents. Your children get to spend time with you on a one to one basis. The image of all together is fine if you are working on your relationship however if you are divorcing it is wise for all ... (read in full...)
Do you think a man who gets defensive is guilty?
Q. Do you think a man who gets defensive is guilty? I have been seeing this guy for 8 weeks at first we saw one another 3 -4 times a week suddenly after xmas we slowed down. He seems to be busy or had a quiet weekend. I am not buying it. Something ...
A. 4 January 2011: Find out why did he lie about his age. Is there a record for the 41 year old? Alot of men do get defensive when asked any question that they feel they don't have to answer. How would you feel if asked the same exact question? Me myself would ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sent emails professing his love to another woman but won't admit it to me! What should I tell him?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and just recently noticed that he has become quite distant. I now have discovered that my boyfriend has been communicating with another woman, has sent her a Xmas Present, went to see her for a weekend and ...
A. 4 January 2011: Unless you are in an open relationship the only thing you can say is "Good-bye".... (read in full...)
Can anybody lend some insights?
Q. Back story: Was in a marriage for 7 yrs and it ended a little over two years ago. Neither one of us was getting what we needed and we were each cheating (yeah, I suck). I fell hard for a co-worker and things didn't end up working out (I got ...
A. 4 January 2011: Even though she's a great girl. She's not enough to stop you from wanting to be alone. It's hurtful to tell someone that you want to be alone but you like being with them. It would be wise to break it off. It appears that you was on the rebound. ... (read in full...)
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