My instincts were right, he has a stash of porn. The trust has now gone!
Q. I put a question in the other day about my husband watching porn [just a gut feeling i had] Well surprise surprise my gut feeling was right. I found 19 porn cd's in his work bag today, so its not very pleasant in my home at the moment. Thanks...
A. 21 September 2007: Hi there lonelynights,
i am sorry to here that your instincts were right. but from your previous post it seemed to me that he was more than likely still viewing porn, i should know having been in the same possition as you.
don't quite know wha... (read in full...)
Where are all the honest men?
Q. This question is for all the guys, male, testosterone driven individuals. I have had bad experiences in my life with boyfriends. I have had the cheaters, liars, players, you name it. My current boyfriend happens to be a big liar. I am loosing my ...
A. 28 August 2007: Well i not sure there are any honest guys out there. I've had bf's which were also liars and cheats and i've come to the same conclusion that there are no good men left. Was in a relationship for 2 yrs before i found out what a liar i was with, ... (read in full...)
I am so worn down by my husband (married 14 years) and my life.
Q. I desperately need advice. I am so worn down by my husband (married 14 years) and my life. I feel like he plays mind games with me but I constantly doubt myself because of what he says. He seems to get angry with me when I don't react or do what ...
A. 14 August 2007: To start with you are not rotten to the core. thats just his way of bring you down to control you. Yes it sounds as if he is playing mind games, very similar to my ex. He was very controlling and tried to bring me down to keep me under his control. ... (read in full...)
I feel i can't move on, because he needs me.
Q. I've been livign with my ex husbad for the last 2 yrs. we're good friednds now but no other attraction whatsoever. somehow i feel i cant move on cos he needs me as an emotional support. i love him a lot and i understand him, just that because of his ...
A. 11 August 2007: Hi there, You really need to think about what you need in your life, not just for now but for the future. If there is no way you will get back with him, then you need to find someone for you that can give you what you need. You say you are good fri... (read in full...)
Why did he get married if he wanted to chat to other women?
Q. I discovered pornographic stories, written by my husband for other men and women, on his pc. He had asked for photographs of their wives (or them if they were female). This was the third time I had cause to wonder what he was doing on the pc. The ...
A. 3 August 2007: I found my partner of 5yrs had been doing the same writing porn scripts & signing up to sex sites. I told him how i felt about the things i had found and the only reason he gave me was that he had been stupid. After a year i still don't trust him & ... (read in full...)
My rapist told me it was 'normal and that porn stars do it', so I developed a hatred for porn; yet my boyfriend still looks at magazines
Q. i was raped when i was 9 and the person who did it said it was normal and all the famous porn stars did it. and now i despise porn iv told my boyfriend and he stoped watching it but lately iv found hes been looking at mags and he said he wasn't i ...
A. 24 July 2007: Hi there,
I read your post and i have to say that i also have had problems in my relationships because of sexual abuse as a child and as a result i to hate porn. I recently had similar arguements with my long time partner due to things he had been... (read in full...)
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