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... Send *hisper01 a private message | | | *hisper01's profile:Hey i'm 15 i live in the West Midlands, England and i hav a crazy little life so i was looking for some help with a few of my issues. i hope to be able to help others as i can often help my friends with their problems. I apologise up front if my replies are childish though =). I tend to be a bit blunt aswell.
At the moment i'm single but this really nice guy is interested and we are getting extremely close,
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He said he has trouble with his phone when I can't get through---do you think he's ignoring me?
Q. I fancy this guy at school. I think he fancies me but I'm not sure. Anyway the other day I told him I fancied him and he didnt say anything to me about it but he acted normally. Hes quite flirty with me. The point is since we split up from school I...
A. 23 December 2006: stop chasing him you've done your bit and told him how u feel, yes u may have scared him off but if he's a 'man' then he will get over it if u CALM the whole thing down.
let him come to you and dont let him spoil your holidays go out with your mate... (read in full...)
I'm hopelessly in love with a guy and it's unrequited! How do I deal with this?
Q. I recently went to see 'the holiday' starring Cameron Diaz and Kate Winslet, and find my self in a very similar situation as Winslet's character, Iris. Hopelessly in love (unrequited) with a guy, that (there is a wonderful quote when Iris is telling ...
A. 23 December 2006: i went to see that film and its ace, i cant remember the quote tho =( sorry bout that.
i do think however, that u should be like Iris at the end of the film and basically tell the guy to go away!
If your love is unrequited then get yourself awa... (read in full...)
He confessed hes a cocaine addict, he says he's given up, but how do I know he has!!!
Q. my boyfreind got sick the other day when i was with him and went to the hospital. he just told me he was having withdrawls from a cocaine addiction he had....he didnt tell me sooner because when we first went out i said i wouldnt date anyone who ...
A. 23 December 2006: you need to get through this together .
he didnt tell u because he loves u and u havent left him as soon as you found out he was on drugs because u love him. There is a lot of love there and u can turn to each other for help. Thats how you cope... (read in full...)
I want to remain friends with my ex, how can I do this?
Q. I am in a current 1 yr. loving relationship and have recently kept running into my ex. I broke up with him and tried to speak to him once;he barely responded.I still care about him and would like to remain friends,how should I go about it!...
A. 23 December 2006: Be civil to him but make it clear that you are in love and happy with someone else, you have moved on.
Other than that treat him like and ordinary acquaintance and tell your new partner about him so that your partner doesnt get jealous or susp... (read in full...)
Can you regain trust in a relationship?
Q. It is possible to regain trust in a relationship? How will I go about doing this? I love my husband in this point in our relationship I am trying to glue broken pieces together. I won't it to workout I am just having trust issues. He looks at other ...
A. 23 December 2006: i'm not sure about this but the guy looks at porn, other women and wont have sex with you!!!!!!!!!! OF COURSE YOUR INSECURE.
before you start to try and trust him you gotta ask him why he doesnt want sex with you or why he looks at porn and othe... (read in full...)
Boy's don't fancy me because I look 11 when I am 13! How do I start to look my age?
Q. Hey Cupid! I need a little help here! Boys never seem to fancy me coz most people who meet me think i'm in yr 7 or that i am about 11 but i am actually 13 (nearly 14 and in yr9 ) How can i start to look my age? Please reply, thanks!...
A. 23 December 2006: dont worry about it at all. i have the same problem i have a baby face =D. but trust me if you act your age then the guys come running =). guys at school know your age because your in the same year and most will feel protective about you because you ... (read in full...)
First relationship! How long should I wait to hold hands-kiss him on the cheek and so on?
Q. It's my first real relationship... and I really like this guy because he's a close friend ... But I want to know how long should I wait to hold hands ... kiss him on the cheek etc ... ...
A. 23 December 2006: huni definately go with the flow if the mood takes you then kiss the guy.
me and this guy arent in a relationship but we're more than close but he is too much of a wuss to do anything first. Maybe yours is the same so for goodness sake dont wait... (read in full...)
She says I'm too clingy!
Q. ok i have been going out with my girl firend for about a year and every thing was great ok but i tend to hang arounder her in school now she says i am too clingy in school and i am on my last shot with her and i am trying i really am but she is ...
A. 23 December 2006: leave her alone for abit i had this trouble with my ex. trust me its SOO infuriating!
hang around with your mates at school hug and kiss her if you bump into her accidently NOT on purpose. occasionally send her a txt or something or leave a lett... (read in full...)
I think my BF views me as annoying when his friends are there, how can we be more lovey when people are around ?
Q. Hey everyone it seems like i'm asking the same question each time but my problem is i think my bf is seeing me as annoying. Like at times when he brings his guy friends over so we ALL can hang out its pretty much his friends hanging out and me ...
A. 23 December 2006: i have a similar problem, me and this guy arent going out as such just...seeing each other =D
i'm absolutely terrified of his friends for some reason. i'm a naturally shy person but his friends are all loud etc and i get really really shy. how... (read in full...)
Two questions... How long until a relationship is "serious"? And how long to wait until the "L"-word?
Q. Hey people I have two questions i have never really been in a relationship before and now in my 20s am a lil confused Q1 How long is it till a relationship becomes serious I have been seeing him or sixth months Friends for three before that I fe...
A. 23 December 2006: a relationship is serious from the beginning if both people feel that it is. my friend has been dating a guy for about 6 months as well but as soon as it started it was the main thing in her life, the most 'serious' thing in her life. Its serious if ... (read in full...)
Afraid to tell this boy I like him-what should I do?
Q. i have a crush on a boy but i am afraid to tell him because i dont think he likes me and i might get embarassed what should i do...
A. 23 December 2006: Only one thing to say...
Flirt! =P
Its good fun and if he starts flirting back then you know he feels something for you.
Just watch for a few signs, glancing at you, playing with your hair, sometimes poking you or tickling you.
You a... (read in full...)
He left for no reason and left me in a lurch. Do I divorce or not?
Q. hi! my husbands left me for no real and meaningful reason,he just started making up lame excuses and reasons to leave.he hasnt shown any signs of divorcing me and has now left me in the lurch.ive tried to patch things up,but its like im going in one ...
A. 23 December 2006: Divorce. Cut yourself clean away from this man. Forgive him and move on so that he cant come crawling back to you later on.
Divorce isnt a sin, its admitting a mistake and making amends. Your husband is the bad guy to just leave you with no reaso... (read in full...)
Due to conflict with my parents, he's not sure if he should come here for christmas! How do I keep my family and my bf happy?
Q. Hi. I've been with my bf for about 11 months now. He's 23, im 21 and this is our first christmas together. However, this holiday is turning out to be complicated and frustrating already. My bf really wants to see me on christmas eve or christmas ...
A. 23 December 2006: Are you and your bf considering getting married? If yes then your parents really have to start getting used to him being around. Christmas would be a perfect time to mend any fences and try and resolve the conflict between your bf and your parents. ... (read in full...)
I am wondering wh he takes his cell phone to the bathroom with him? Other females? Am I over-reacting?
Q. Am i being paranoid? My bf's friend was calling to see if we wanted to go eat. The the friend said he would call back. A few minutes later my b/f says i am going to the bathroom and i am taking my cell phone...i said why would you tell me that? He...
A. 23 December 2006: You might be over-reacting you might not. Has your husband ever lied to you before?
You really should trust your husband as love and trust is a big part of marriage. Besides if he isnt in the bathroom long enough to hav a txt conversa... (read in full...)
Whom do I choose? My steady bf or another guy I like but it's uncertain?
Q. Hey, i'm a little confused over what i shoud do. I was seeing this great guy but..he's slightly (a year)younger than me and it kinda freaks me out a bit! is that just shallow? on top of this i also like this other guy(a mate)...which was one of the ...
A. 23 December 2006: Which guy do you like more? Think hard. Do you only like the guy you are unsure about because its uncertain and a slight bit of adventure?
There is, however no point seeing the first guy again if you are just going to break it off later and hurt... (read in full...)
How can you get a guy not in your clique to go out with you?
Q. How can you get a guy not in your clique to go out with you? I like this guy but he is a big prep we talk but I want us to be more. All his friends are too and I just have my own style, and so do my friends. ...
A. 23 December 2006: If the guy is a decent person and he likes you then it really shouldnt matter what clique you're in. i know most of the time it does but dont change yourself so that you and this guy become more because then he wont know the real you. Make it clear ... (read in full...)
How do I stop my jealousy ruining our friendship?
Q. I think I have fallen for my best friend, I have never fancied girls before but me and my best friend are really close and I think I have fallen for her. When we are together I'm happy and I love to cuddle her and I want to be with her. She is ...
A. 23 December 2006: I think you need to get out of there girl. Your relationship is already on the downhill because you've fallen for her, she's no longer only a friend, it changes everything. You either need to get over her quick, control your feelings and carry on ... (read in full...)
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