A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I think I have fallen for my best friend, I have never fancied girls before but me and my best friend are really close and I think I have fallen for her. When we are together I'm happy and I love to cuddle her and I want to be with her. She is bisexual but she has a boyfriend and I find myself feeling jealous when she talks about him or when I see them together. Since she's been going out with him we have been arguing a lot and I know I cause the arguments because I am jealous but I dont mean to start them. How do I stop my jealousy ruining our friendship?
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reader, whisper01 +, writes (23 December 2006):
I think you need to get out of there girl. Your relationship is already on the downhill because you've fallen for her, she's no longer only a friend, it changes everything. You either need to get over her quick, control your feelings and carry on being a good friend, or tell her how you feel and why you need to stay away for a while.
You never know if you tell her how you feel she might feel the same, her boyfriend might just be a distraction of hers.
Good luck, fancying a good friend can be hell
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