She left me when things were going great!
Q. I'm so confused right now. We were doing great and it's been 4 months. It starts off like this. I met her at a party 6 months ago while I was playing a guitar. She found me on facebook the next day and told me how amazing I was and wanted to get to ...
A. 26 January 2011: I know that soon I will leave my boyfriend, I feel unsure about our future and have expressed this to him. But she didnt seem to give you a chance. I say forget her, maybe it was the hormones, or maybe some internal struggle she just couldn't talk ... (read in full...)
My wife contributes very little to our relationship
Q. My wife and I have been married for two years and I'm worried about our future because she contributes very little to our relationship. I bring in 100% of the money (I'm putting her through college), but in return she doesn't clean, cook, take ...
A. 23 January 2011: She doesn't sound like she's pulling her weight, you should bring up your feelings when your both calm and just tell her the truth about how u feel. Leave the weight part out of it for now because that will make her defensive. Just tell her how ... (read in full...)
Can I be with him anymore because of his pot addiction?
Q. Ive been dating my boyfriend for two years, I'm struggling with whether or not I can be with him any more because of his pot habit. At first I never minded because I thought it was just weekend use, but now its multiple times every day. It pisses ...
A. 14 January 2011: Thankyou both! He did agree to change, I told him to write a plan and show it to me so that I can trust that he's serious. But I made it very clear that he's just about ready to lose me for good.... (read in full...)
Is it unhealthy to have sex everyday?
Q. Is it unhealthy to have sex almost everyday? And after we have sex it hurt and was sore it has did this a few times what's wrong?...
A. 9 January 2011: Its absolutley healthy to have sex every day as long as it feels good physically and emotionally. If it's something you like to enjoy on a daily basis then go for it. But if it causes too much pain tell your man to be gentle and give yourself a day ... (read in full...)
Feel 'dirty' after sex
Q. So, me and my boyfriend are sexually active. We have been for a couple of months now but the thing is everytime after sex, I feel just really dirty. I mean like disgusted with myself. I'm 19 and he's 20 and I don't get. He's the sweetest guy I've ...
A. 30 November 2010: I understand the feeling, and I've worked really hard to come to terms with negative feelings I have after sex. I am in a 2 year long committed relationship and I still experience feelings of dirtiness or shame after sex. In my case I know it's a ... (read in full...)
I want to surprise him with some risque photos...just worried he won't find me hot! Help!
Q. Ok so recently I have been seeing this guy..who I really like :) which is awesome and finally I think Im ready for the serious relationship, etc. He's more experienced then me, he's older.. expected. I have been taking it slow but the other night he ...
A. 30 November 2010: Make sure he deserves to see you like that, don't feel pressured that you have to. I made a mistake when I was 18 of dating an older guy, he asked me for photos over the phone and of course I sent them even though my gut warned me against it. I was ... (read in full...)
Is his request for a threesome a fantasy, or something else?
Q. I have a lovely boyfriend of 2 years, he is a great guy and we have a committed relationship. However he brought up the subject of a threesome recently and it has got me worried. I would be open to the idea of fooling around with her for him, but ...
A. 30 November 2010: "It's not insecure or jealous to not want your partner to have sex with other people, whether you're involved or not. You feel what you feel."
Thankyou! And I shouldn't have to be so apologetic for my feelings, I spoke with him and told him that... (read in full...)
Is his request for a threesome a fantasy, or something else?
Q. I have a lovely boyfriend of 2 years, he is a great guy and we have a committed relationship. However he brought up the subject of a threesome recently and it has got me worried. I would be open to the idea of fooling around with her for him, but ...
A. 29 November 2010: Thankyou everyone who's replied! I will try to tell him how I feel, I just don't want to come off as insecure and jealous. ... (read in full...)
I've lost so much respect for him because of his porn use
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating 1 year and a half, I love him but I've lost so much respect for him because of his porn use. I find his internet history full of porn videos, with titles like illegal teens, incest, and other disgusting things ...
A. 30 June 2010: it has been so difficult remaining with him while I know he's fantasizing about things I find disgusting. My boyfriend is not a pedophile in anyway, of course men are going to want to see younger girls, but I realize that they are really 20 ... (read in full...)
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