The hardest decision of my life... help me.
Q. I am 30 years old. I have 3 little boys which I love and adore more than life. I was married once and divorced and then remarried 4 years ago. We have 2 of the 3 sons together. My husband is 15 years older than me and after our last child I cou...
A. 8 February 2009: God gave both of you this baby. I think you need to sit your husband down to talk to him. Tell him that you want this baby, and that you are going to do what is right.
Ask him how he can hate anything that you both made? God gave you this pre... (read in full...)
How can I handle him with a new GF?
Q. Hi everyone. Hope i can get some advice. Me and my boyfriend split up new years day after 3 years together... i am getting out there and keeping busy. And feel like im not too bad in dealing with things. Theres just one thing bothering me...i k...
A. 8 February 2009: I would busy myself with other things, particularly things you enjoy, as much as I could. Confide in your girlfriends. Go out and do things with them. Meet someone else when the time is right. You'll get over him. But remember that, just as you ... (read in full...)
Will it last if we both live at home?
Q. Do you think it's possible for my boyfriend (age 29) and I (age 25) to have a SERIOUS relationship even though both of us still live with our parents???? I'd love others insight on this....
A. 2 February 2009: Yes, it is possible for you to have a serious relationship if you both live with your parents. You can be very intimate without having sex. I would advise you to wait, and you will be glad that you did. If it becomes a part of dating and you ... (read in full...)
We are virgins and getting married soon - any advice about our first time?
Q. Hi I am getting married in a few months. We are both virgins..but I am scared. Don't know how he feels about the first time. Is it painful? If I bleed a bit will he be disgusted about it? What is the best position?...
A. 2 February 2009: Wonderful! You will be so glad that you waited. Don't worry about anything. It will all work out. It may take a little while for it to be comfortable. You probably need to buy some lubricating gel. This is helpful. But trust me--it will work ... (read in full...)
How can we accept what our daughter is doing? We are so against it
Q. my daughter is living with her new boyfriend of 4 months. we are really against this.dad roman catholic and mother christian but disapprove also. she just came out of a 6 year relationship that broke up.we have not met new boyfriend yet . she says ...
A. 2 February 2009: I totally understand, and I and all of my family and my husband's family are Roman Catholic also. It is so wonderful to hear you support what is right as people seem so lax in this area. I support you as parents all the way. I totally take your ... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity to my friend?
Q. Should I lose my virginity to my friend? I'm 19 and I feel it's about time, but I've never been in a relationship loving enough to want to. I kind of want to get it over and done with so its not a big deal any more. And I feel really comfortable ...
A. 27 January 2009: Age does not matter. I was a virgin until I got married at age 32, mind you!!! I don't regret it one bit! No man is worth giving yourself to unless he is someone who you really love and who is ready to commit to marriage. Doing it for f... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity to my friend?
Q. Should I lose my virginity to my friend? I'm 19 and I feel it's about time, but I've never been in a relationship loving enough to want to. I kind of want to get it over and done with so its not a big deal any more. And I feel really comfortable ...
A. 26 January 2009: I would advise you NOT to lose your virginity to your friend. Sex is something that needs to be saved for someone who you love with your whole heart and soul and for someone who you intend to marry. Sex is not to be thrown around like some trashy ... (read in full...)
How to be more fun in school?
Q. In school, I'm focused, so i feel like guys always see me as a stickler and turn off because i'm really not showing any personality. i just don't know how to balance the two, and i'm not one of those giggley-giggley girls. i don't really flirt; i ...
A. 25 January 2009: I think you have plenty of time to meet guys. If your focus is on studying and learning, making good grades, it sounds like it is in the right place. In order to make friends of either sex, you need to be yourself. You will find guys who are ... (read in full...)
Where can I meet some nice guys?
Q. I've just moved to an all girls grammer school and am really missing having guys around. i've never had a proper boyfriend and really think i'm ready for one, i think i need someone to be there for me and someone to spend some time with. when could ...
A. 25 January 2009: I think a good place to meet guys or to make friends is church. I think the fact that they go to church says a lot about a person, they want to be good and they make time for God in their lives.... (read in full...)
If we are friends then why wouldn't she want me to be in the club she's in?
Q. I have a friend who I thought considered me a friend. I have done lots of favors for her, and we have done things together as our girls are in the same grade at school. However, her body language says very strongly that I am not welcome to join a ...
A. 13 January 2009: Fee-Fee, Thank you for your response. I don't feel that it has anything to do with our girls. I think that you hit the nail on the head with your first response. It's more about insecurity. I honestly think that, even though it really hurts ... (read in full...)
If we are friends then why wouldn't she want me to be in the club she's in?
Q. I have a friend who I thought considered me a friend. I have done lots of favors for her, and we have done things together as our girls are in the same grade at school. However, her body language says very strongly that I am not welcome to join a ...
A. 13 January 2009: Fee-Fee,
At the end of your response, you said, "You'll never know unless you ask her." I disagree with this. What are the chances that she will be honest in her response? Don't you agree? I feel that body language or actions speak louder t... (read in full...)
If we are friends then why wouldn't she want me to be in the club she's in?
Q. I have a friend who I thought considered me a friend. I have done lots of favors for her, and we have done things together as our girls are in the same grade at school. However, her body language says very strongly that I am not welcome to join a ...
A. 13 January 2009: Fee-Fee,
At the end of your response, you said, "You'll never know unless you ask her." I disagree with this. What are the chances that she will be honest in her response? Don't you agree? I feel that body language or actions speak louder t... (read in full...)
If we are friends then why wouldn't she want me to be in the club she's in?
Q. I have a friend who I thought considered me a friend. I have done lots of favors for her, and we have done things together as our girls are in the same grade at school. However, her body language says very strongly that I am not welcome to join a ...
A. 13 January 2009: Fee-Fee,
Also, what would you do if you were in this situation? Would you join the club, and why or why not? Thanks for your response!!
Velma... (read in full...)
If we are friends then why wouldn't she want me to be in the club she's in?
Q. I have a friend who I thought considered me a friend. I have done lots of favors for her, and we have done things together as our girls are in the same grade at school. However, her body language says very strongly that I am not welcome to join a ...
A. 13 January 2009: Fee-Fee,
What an awesome answer!! I think you hit the nail on the head!!
Thanks for your response!... (read in full...)
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