We've been going out but he says he doesn't want a relationship!
Q. Hi, I have dated my friend now for 4 months. We talk everyday and go out very frequently even though we both have very demanding careers. The problem is that he has refused to define what the relationship is. He keeps saying he isnt ready for...
A. 2 December 2008: I'd be very careful here ... it's been four months. That's certainly long enough to know whether or not he wants to be spending time with you in a similar vein this time next month, in two months, etc. Long enough to know if he wants to be in a ... (read in full...)
Got this from my ex today. What does it mean?
Q. Got this from my ex today. What does it mean? "I think I know what my tension is with you sometimes like when we talk on IM. I think it’s because we go so much longer now without quality time that I forget what you’re like when you are just her...
A. 2 December 2008: You might be right that she's hinting a bit that a little more face-time might make the online interaction less awkward/prone to misinterpretation. As far as that goes, if you think you'd like to spend a bit more face-time with your ex, ask her if ... (read in full...)
He's always there at parties and so I feel I can't go!
Q. Hi everyone, I am looking for advice on what to do with my current situation. My ex and I broke up over year ago after a 3 year relationship. I was completely heartbroken but i accepted his decision. I had to cut all contact from him in order to get ...
A. 17 November 2008: Ah, that's too bad. I can understand why you feel awkward around your ex and his girlfriend, given their hostility. But it's very clearly their problem, not yours.
Really what this tells you is that your ex and his girlfriend have issues o... (read in full...)
I have second thoughts about my ex, should I break my present relationship or let these thoughts pass?
Q. i am in the relationship but i have second thoughts about a previous relationship... and i have had many thoughts of cheating but i couldnt let me self hurt my partner like that... but i am weaking and i am scared that i am gonna hurt them... and i ...
A. 11 November 2008: There are two different issues here: how you feel about your current partner, and how you feel about this ex.
First, your current partner. Why are you with him? Are you two on the same page -- i.e., similar hopes for the relationship? If you h... (read in full...)
He loves someone else so why did he say he lost a good thing referring to me?
Q. When he said to me the other day ive lost 2 goods things 1 including you do you think he ment it? he said it after are split and part of me thinks he ment it after he realised how good i was to him, He also said to me go on and look georgous...
A. 7 November 2008: Ah ... this sounds to me like the kind of things that guys say when they're trying to be nice, feeling a bit guilty, and/or wanting to stay in your good graces (back up plan, not wanting you to hate them, etc.). You guys split up because he's in ... (read in full...)
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