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writes:When he said to me the other day ive lost 2 goods things 1 including you do you think he ment it? he said it after are split and part of me thinks he ment it after he realised how good i was to him,He also said to me go on and look georgous like you always do?This has been after are split and i know we wont get bk together he said he loved someone else, But could he be realising what he has lost with me or trying to get bk in my good books eventho we are still friends? Reply to this Question
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reader, blondee holly  +, writes (7 November 2008):
 i think he is just ebing on your sweet side
cuz he cares for you but loves someone else
ive been through this too
but i took him back and we break up and get back together and now we're broken up again!
and i think this time its gonna stay that way
i cant take the pain ive been through all 4 times
):
but i mean also he could be realizing what he has lost....
and to think the worst...
he could be getting on your good side
so when this chick doesnt give in to him or they break up he'll have you
i hope thats not it
but i best wishes for you
stay strong
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reader, uhohlala +, writes (7 November 2008):
Ah ... this sounds to me like the kind of things that guys say when they're trying to be nice, feeling a bit guilty, and/or wanting to stay in your good graces (back up plan, not wanting you to hate them, etc.).You guys split up because he's in love with someone else? Even if he didn't cheat on you, he's gotta know that had to hurt you -- and he wants to be less of a jerk, so he wants you to know that he recognizes that you're a great thing.Be careful! If the signs you're getting that he might be having second thoughts about letting you go are only vague signs, open to interpretation, chances are very good that you should just ignore them -- his agenda is to feel better about what he's done, to limit the extent of the damage he wrought by his actions. Believe me, I'm in a very similar situation right now, and if the mixed messages continue with no meaningful action on his part, your best bet may well be to cut contact with him, for your own peace of mind.Good luck!
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