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Weellll I love helping people. I put myself into everybody's shoes very well. I think you'll find my understanding really useful. I live in Jersey. I'm not perfect though, my question I posted is about something really painful for me. I'd love some meaningfull responses because I need some help.

Did this paedophile take my virginity?

Q.   Well i've been with this man for 13 months, he's 22.. i think. im not goin to tell u how old i am but im not younger than 13. i always go to his house. we dont have PROPER sex.. we just like rub against each other, but we're naked.. you might tink ...

A.   25 December 2007: I'd stop seeing him, it might be hard to do because you might think you have feelings for him. But honestly the situation you're in is dangerous and weird. Take a break from him and look back at the situation, and hopefully you'll see how wrong and ... (read in full...)

My ex's new girlfriend is all over my new boyfriend, she flirts with him in front of my ex, and I'm starting to have feelings back for him, anything I can do without ruining our friendship?

Q.   Me and my ex boyfriend were going on 2 years, he broke up with me, and got back together with his ex. I got together with his close friend...for a very short while. I started falling for his friend, but now my ex's new girlfriend is all over my new ...

A.   24 December 2007: Your ex will inevitably see how sleezy the new girlfriend is. No need to get yourself involved, it'll cause resentment and he might assume you're bitter or jealous because of your past relationship. Maybe you could tell a mutual friend about what's ... (read in full...)

She's with another guy and it hurts. What can I do?

Q.   hi all. i have a bit of a problem here. i took a girl out for lunch about 2 months ago a a first date and we got on great! we never had the time to arrange another date but always talked and helped each other out. in the last couple of weeks sh...

A.   24 December 2007: Talk openly and maturely with her and find out how she feels. It's the only way to clear the air and to move forward in your relationship, whether it be a strong friendship or a romantic relationship. She might not be interested romantically, but ... (read in full...)

How do I avoid the dramatics?

Q.   The last time I fell for a "friend" it was a fabulous relationship, but the ending was horrid and even though we both would have liked to have stayed friends in the long term it just couldn't work. Now It's the same thing all over again-different ...

A.   24 December 2007: It might not be the most comfortable conversation, but since this an important issue to you, I think you and your boyfriend should talk about what would happen and try to prevent anything awkward. If you guys were true, good friends to one another ... (read in full...)

I really want a bf but boys only ever notice my friend.

Q.   I have this friend who is stunning, confident and flirty and all the boys fancy her. Trouble is, they don't notice me. And she can be a bit slutty too. Last night she had a party, there were two hot guys there and , surprise surprise, she spent th...

A.   23 December 2007: I know where you're coming from, being confident around guys can be really difficult. I bet if you talked to other girls about it, theyd all agree. Even if you don't think it, boys are probably ten times more nervous around girls than what you'd ... (read in full...)

Is there a way I can ease my loneliness without hurting my wife?

Q.   I am caught between not wanting to hurt me wife and trying to easy my lonelyness. What do I do now? Is there a way to not hurt her and ease my loneliness? We are not and have never been soul mates. I respect her enough after 19 years, that I do...

A.   23 December 2007: I empathise with you completely, it is not worth the pain, boredom, and emptiness just to "be married". Life is short, don't waste another second of it not being happy or satisfied. Your wife is clearly not the woman for you, and since you feel that ... (read in full...)

I have a crush on my teacher and I think he knows...

Q.   Hiiii xx First off, I'm a 15 year old chick. I kind of have a crush on my grade nine math teacher (I'm in grade ten now.)I won't go into details, but at the beginning of this year he was fine with me, and nowadays he seems to be avoiding me and ...

A.   23 December 2007: Just don't act awkward or stare at him and stuff like that. It'll make him feel uncomfortable. Act to him like you would act with any other person, and things will be fine with time :)... (read in full...)

I love her so much and want to write her a poem, can anyone please help me??

Q.   i want a cute girl to love me i know her but i want her to love me, her nickname is tatty my nick name is moa so please can u make a good poem for me and her i want her to love me i want her to fall in love with me please...

A.   23 December 2007: Poems are a nice token of affection, but they you can't expect her to fall in love with you because of one. Ask her out and stuff,and if you guys are hitting it off, romantic things like poems will come to you. They're supposed to come from YOUR ... (read in full...)

My step brother and I are having sex! what should I do?

Q.   im Annabelle and im 14. about 3 nights ago my brother (jayden) and i were home alone and he got me drunk. i remember him getting into bed with me. jayden is 16. he started touching me and then kissing me, but because stupidly i was drunk i kissed ...

A.   23 December 2007: The only thing I can tell you is to follow your heart and make a decision between the two as quickly as you can. If you continue with this, it'll only become worse and more painful when the truth comes out because you'll be so attached to both of ... (read in full...)

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