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Why would I wear a ring from a boy who promised me forever then left for college and lost feelings?

Q.   my boyfriend and i started dating our sophomore year in high school. everything was going great. our senior year, we experienced more problems as we both were leaving to attend different colleges come this fall. we were aware it was going to be a ...

A.   7 November 2008: I have been in the same place as you. I was with my college b/f for 4 years and when we graduated the same thing happened to us. We worked through our problems and now we are getting married in two weeks. Just give it sometime things will work out ... (read in full...)

Any sex advice for a larger lady?

Q.   I'm very overweight and not very "attractive" but I've met a fella who accepts me as I am. We're now having regular intercourse for the first time in my life.To be honest I'm just glad to feel wanted and satisfy a man's needs in bed.Look...

A.   25 July 2008: Try putting a pillow under your bottom or even raising your knees higher so that he can get deeper inside of you. Hope this helps.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants a break but I want to be with him so badly...

Q.   my boyfriend of 4 years decided he wants a break. i respect the fact that he wants it because i hear when other people take them the relationship is so much stronger in the end if they stay together. but its easier said then done. all i do is think ...

A.   15 May 2008: You just have to give him some space and time, my ex and I went through the same thing and now we are slowing trying to rebuild our relationship. Just hold on and be strong.... (read in full...)

Do I follow my heart or do I just do what my family wants me to do?

Q.   Ok, it has been six months since I talked to my ex. He called me last night and told me that he regrets letting me walk out of his life and that he would do anything to have be back in it. I still have fellings for him and he still has them for me. ...

A.   15 May 2008: He is the first guy I ever really dated and I can't seem to get him off my mind what is the best way for us to go about dealing with my parents. We broke up because I thought he was cheating but he wasn't and I told my parents he was. My parents ... (read in full...)

Do I follow my heart or do I just do what my family wants me to do?

Q.   Ok, it has been six months since I talked to my ex. He called me last night and told me that he regrets letting me walk out of his life and that he would do anything to have be back in it. I still have fellings for him and he still has them for me. ...

A.   15 May 2008: he is the only person I have loved and he is my first in many ways but I can't see myself with anyone else. ... (read in full...)

Do I follow my heart or do I just do what my family wants me to do?

Q.   Ok, it has been six months since I talked to my ex. He called me last night and told me that he regrets letting me walk out of his life and that he would do anything to have be back in it. I still have fellings for him and he still has them for me. ...

A.   14 May 2008: He didn't disrespect my family ever. They were hurt because I was ... (read in full...)

I'm meeting my ex for first time since we broke up 3 months ago. Any opinions or advice would be welcomed.

Q.   So im meeting my ex of 3 years at the weekend for a bite to eat. I havent seen her for nearly 3 months, and only communicated a couple of times through text. It was kind of a mutual agreement to meet up for as she puts it "a casual catch up". ...

A.   14 May 2008: Take it from someone who knows. I met my ex after 6 months of hardly talking and we are talking about getting back together. It can either be a good thing if you both still have fellings for each other. But just see how she acts before you do ... (read in full...)

Do I follow my heart or do I just do what my family wants me to do?

Q.   Ok, it has been six months since I talked to my ex. He called me last night and told me that he regrets letting me walk out of his life and that he would do anything to have be back in it. I still have fellings for him and he still has them for me. ...

A.   14 May 2008: We were dating in college and I graduated and he stayed. I had trust issues and was always accusing him of cheating. I know that he had fellings for another girl when we broke up but later learned they were not seeing each other.... (read in full...)

I broke up with my bf over the phone. He's been seeing someone younger, should I take him back if he asks me?

Q.   my boyfriend and I broke up this morning on the phone. This is the second time in a year that we have broken up. The first time we remaind friends and saw each other. I don't know what to do because he is the only one that makes me happy. He has ...

A.   9 November 2007: I am never getting back with him ever. It is so over now.... (read in full...)

I broke up with my bf over the phone. He's been seeing someone younger, should I take him back if he asks me?

Q.   my boyfriend and I broke up this morning on the phone. This is the second time in a year that we have broken up. The first time we remaind friends and saw each other. I don't know what to do because he is the only one that makes me happy. He has ...

A.   8 November 2007: This is the thing we broke up yes. But we have done this before and we always get back together. I don't know if I want to get back together unless some things change.... (read in full...)

Do I make the effort to see him when he doesn't seem to want to see me???

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We meet in college where we were together every day. I have been out of school since April and he is still there. We live about 80 miles from each other but still we don't see much of each other. At ...

A.   7 November 2007: Ok we broke up and this was his second chance at being with me. I am so lost I don't know what to do now.... (read in full...)

I hope this doesn't cause us to break up.

Q.   My boyfriend and I got into a fight over the phone last night about the fact that I was uncomfortable with him going to the movies with a bunch of girls from college. He told I don't have anything to worry about. I just don't know what to think. He ...

A.   7 November 2007: We broke up over this and because he was cheating on me with one of the girls. She is 14 and he is 20.... (read in full...)

Should I move on or wait around?

Q.   Basically me and my ex broke up and i've been pretty much wanting to get with him since, i no its like anyother teenage romance. I complain about it too much, im sorry :( Recently he's told me he's liked me, and its lit an old spark between us, i do...

A.   7 November 2007: Get over him. I just broke up with my boyfriend over the phone because he has been cheating on. I found out from his myspace.... (read in full...)

I hope this doesn't cause us to break up.

Q.   My boyfriend and I got into a fight over the phone last night about the fact that I was uncomfortable with him going to the movies with a bunch of girls from college. He told I don't have anything to worry about. I just don't know what to think. He ...

A.   2 November 2007: Update: We have been together for a little over a year. We have taken a break for three months once before. I talked to him about my fellings he said that he understood they way that I felt. He said he fells the same way when I spend time with my ... (read in full...)

I hope this doesn't cause us to break up.

Q.   My boyfriend and I got into a fight over the phone last night about the fact that I was uncomfortable with him going to the movies with a bunch of girls from college. He told I don't have anything to worry about. I just don't know what to think. He ...

A.   2 November 2007: Ok here is what is going on with this situation. I don't know the girls. We have broken up in the past over me being to clingy. We have had fights over things in the past. Last night when we got off the phone he didn't say I love you and he always ... (read in full...)

I miss my boyfriend like crazy but not sure long-distance will work out

Q.   Ok I have been with this guy for about a month and he recently just went back to school and I am going crazy missing him. I don't know if I should stay with him because right before he went back to school I cheated on him, but I told him the truth. ...

A.   1 November 2007: I have been in a long distance relationship for about 6 months. We were in college together and saw each other every day. Now we might see each other once a month. I don't know what to tell you because I am in the same situation as you. I know that ... (read in full...)

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