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writes:my boyfriend and I broke up this morning on the phone. This is the second time in a year that we have broken up. The first time we remaind friends and saw each other. I don't know what to do because he is the only one that makes me happy. He has been seeing someone that is fourteen and he is twenty. I really love him and I am willing to forgive him if he will talk to me about what went wrong but I don't know if he will. What should I do? I want to be with him and not anyone esle. How can I make him see this. If he decides that this was a mistake do I take him back or not he has only been see this girl for 2 days.
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reader, rockelle +, writes (9 November 2007):
 Good for you. Now you can move on and be happy.
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reader, uganut86 +, writes (9 November 2007):
uganut86 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I am never getting back with him ever. It is so over now.
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (8 November 2007):
 I don't think you should get back with him and if you're having those doubts too, then go with your gut. It's a sign. It's not normal for a 20-year old to be seeing a 14-year old. Something's not right with that situation. You deserve someone better.
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reader, uganut86 +, writes (8 November 2007):
uganut86 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis is the thing we broke up yes. But we have done this before and we always get back together. I don't know if I want to get back together unless some things change.
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reader, rockelle +, writes (7 November 2007):
You said that you broke up this morning on the phone then you say he has been seeing a fourteen year old for 2 days? Im confused. If you broke up with him why do you want him back? If he broke up with you for a 14 year old why do you want him back? Obviously when you and a guy break up it is not meant to be, so move on with your life. It sounds like he already has.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (7 November 2007):
Yuk! Why in the world would a 20-year old man be interested in a 14-year old girl (girl mind you, not woman) unless he's headed down the road to being a pedophile? In which case your problems will become far worse if he can't even date in his own time zone. Run, don't walk to the nearest exit.
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