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How important is beauty/cuteness? What do you think about love at first sight? The girl I like fancies another boy because of his appearance!

Q.   What do you think about love at first sight? Is it just like to be in love with somebody we think it's pretty, just because of the appearance? I'd like to believe so... I like a girl who likes another boy, just because she thinks he's cute... I ...

A.   16 September 2008: I do believe in love at first meeting, but not love at first sight. You can tell a lot from the first time you meet someone but this is based on more than their looks.I once fancied a guy for 2 years but was too shy to talk to him and when i did ... (read in full...)

Reluctant to be intimate with him because he had sex with another girl during our break up!

Q.   Hello everyone. I have a situation and would really appreciate some advice. Ok well me and my bf broke up 5 months ago. 2 or 3 weeks ago we got back together. But in the time we were broken up, he had sex with another girl. I was totally upset wh...

A.   16 September 2008: Its only natural that you would find it difficult to be intimate with him again as you feel he has betrayed your trust. Its never easy knowing someone you care about has been with someone else especially someone you know! Give yourself time to buil... (read in full...)

What are some examples of playful banter?

Q.   what is some examples of playful banter? i ask this because this girl that i like alot says the playful banter is a huge turn on. i dont want to ask her what it means because then i would sound like an idiot. please help me...

A.   16 September 2008: PLayful banter is basically just about having the confidence to be a little bit cheeky but without hurting the other persons feelings. The reason girls are turned on by it is because it shows confidence. It is important she knows you are joking so ... (read in full...)

How do I handle my possessive boyfriend ?

Q.   hey all , i would like to ask for your advice about my problem. i really don't know who else i should ask .. well , i have a boyfriend who is younger than me. he's 2 years younger than my age now . now , i'm 17 years old . i love him very much...

A.   16 September 2008: Although some people are possessive naturally, generally it comes from a feeling of insecurity. This may be made worse by the fact that you are older and that your friends do not seem to be encouraging you to stay in this relationship. Try to ... (read in full...)

He will not be with me if I keep this child!

Q.   We broke up with my bf about a month ago after a year and a half. It was a great relationship, but he saiz, that he wasn't all that happy and so he needed time to be alone and focuse on himself. I gave him that time, even tho it was very hard. We ...

A.   16 September 2008: Your are right to think he needs to be there for you, after all it takes two to make a baby! He is being incredibly unsupportive and i am tempted to say that he is calling your bluff by saying he would come back to you if you didnt keep it. He knows ... (read in full...)

I am really getting confused what does the look he gave me mean?

Q.   hello PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!! i would really like some advice on my sutuation. theres this boy who i have a big crush.he does have a girlfreind but yesterday i saw him with her i kind treid to ignore them so i turned away and spoke to my fr...

A.   16 September 2008: It sounds to me like this boy knows that you like him and is pleased about it either because he likes you too or is simply enjoying the attention. My advice to you would be to stay clear of him as long as he has a girlfriend though, you would only ... (read in full...)

I am deeply in love this girl but she lives three and a half hours away-Help!

Q.   hi everyone i am deeply in love this girl but she lives three and a half hours away. i haven't yet confessed my feeling too her because i believe nothing will ever happen in the future. i went out with her in my earlier years but seeing her agai...

A.   16 September 2008: I had a long distance relationship for 3 and a half years when i was 18 and although it was hard work it was the best relationship I have ever been in, but only because we were prepared to be completely honest and open with each other. Thats the ... (read in full...)

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