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anonymous
writes:Its a simple question. We have been together for a year now I love him but he is a flirt. It has gotten on my nerves kind of and gotten me worried he may have or is going to cheat, yet I dont want to put boundries on him as his house is not a happy one a lot of the time. It is just getting me worried though sometimes how can i help get rid of this guilty feeling?
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (18 May 2007):
I really understand how you feel, i would hate to be with flirt but at least you are not causeing arguements over it. The only solution i can think of, is to talk to him about it. You just have to sit him down and gently tell him you love him but you need reasureance.
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reader, candy852 +, writes (18 May 2007):
ok soo yeah my friend has the same problem just get him talk to him if he worries you and your not happyits not ment to be well talk to him tell wats up your my bf you flirt a lot and its bothering me or rite him a notetell him that but if your unhappy its not ment to be!!!!!
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reader, Trev +, writes (18 May 2007):
 You should only feel the way you do if you are lacking in some emotional need. He may or may not be doing anything wrong, but what you are doing to yourself is what will kill your relationship. You have become insecure and allowed him to get away with disrespecting your needs. In my opionion, confront him with your feelings and if he continues to do the same things, you should not waste your time since things will never get better.
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