Why do i stop myself from having an orgasm?
Q. I never seem to let myself orgasm. Whenever i get close i make my partner stop. What can i do to stop this happening? xx...
A. 22 July 2007: My guess is that you have low self-esteem and don't want to let yourself feel good. There's not much you can do to get over this except "get over it" and try to surround yourself with things that make you happy.... (read in full...)
How can i get my bf to stop being a replacement spouse to his dad?
Q. My boyfriends parents have been split for 10 years and neither have found new partners and live quite isolated lives. My boyfriends Dad insists on hi-jacking my boyfriends time, makes him feel bad if he doesn't stay in and watch football and is a...
A. 22 July 2007: I agree with the previous reply but it sounds like this goes a little too far and it's not healthy if "Dad" is making your boyfriend feel bad if he doesn't spend enough time with him. This isn't right. It implies that your boyfriend doesn't want ... (read in full...)
He says 'he loves me but...he's not in love with me". How do I cope?
Q. I have been with this guy for just over a year now. We were best friends before we statred dating. He really took care of me and made me feel more loved than ever before. He was changing his entire life in order to better himself and make himself ...
A. 22 July 2007: As a man, I think you might have to consider that he is having insecurities about marriage after only 8 months, especially if you admit that you are "close to your family" and that it's hard for you too. Basically, I think you're moving too fast ... (read in full...)
Why do i stop myself from having an orgasm?
Q. I never seem to let myself orgasm. Whenever i get close i make my partner stop. What can i do to stop this happening? xx...
A. 22 July 2007: I don't think this is something you should necessarily talk about with your boyfriend, there isn't really much he can do. It sounds like you might have some reservations about him and not fully trust him, otherwise you would probably want to let go ... (read in full...)
Mum won't let me out.
Q. Hey, i am 14 and my mum keeps me in all the time. She won't let me go out to any of my freinds house or sleep over, she wont even let me stay at my best mates house when she know's we both won't do anything bad. Then when people come round she alwa...
A. 22 July 2007: It sounds like she's trying to protect you but not in a mean way. First, you might consider that side of it, that she cares about you and doesn't want anything bad to happen to you because you are still very young. On the other side, 14 is when ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says that where oral sex is concerned, I need practice; any tips?
Q. I asked my boyfriend if I gave good blow jobs and he said I needed practice!So I was wondeing if any one could give me advice on how to get better at it.Thanks...
A. 22 July 2007: Like with anything, there are degrees of quality... if he says you need practice you should ask him for instruction, or if it's just about how often, you have to decide if you want to do it more or tell him that you don't.... (read in full...)
I think i have bulimia....
Q. Im constantly on a diet, i always feel really fat and im not happy with my body. I think i am Bullimic...i starve myself for days living mainly on slimfast and then when i eat i eat loads and make myself sick. I really want to be happy with myself b...
A. 22 July 2007: It sounds like a tough way to be. Obviously there are some deeper problems here that you might want to get help with. Talking to a therapist can be really good. Otherwise, it's clear that you need to be eating more regularly and in normal a... (read in full...)
She's holding back after being abused and bullied.
Q. Well me and this girl have been seeing each other for nearly two months. For the first month things were going fine. She had just split up with her ex and she wanted to take things slow so it didn't end up a rebound thing...so we went slow. Now I ...
A. 22 July 2007: This is a bad situation. She obviously has problems and is not going to be consistent even though you're putting in the effort. I would try to have a serious talk with her about if she thinks you two have a future and from this you should make a de... (read in full...)
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