My new guy would be perfect... except he's married!
Q. I meet this guy, lets just say it's like the pretty woman movie. He buys me all sort of expensive gifts and such. It is so different with him, the other day we were making out for 4 hours straight without having sex at all in any way. He says h...
A. 21 November 2005: You have two options: 1. Tell him you will not see him again until he leaves his wife. 2. Leave yourself right now, I guess thats the safest option and the others here have allready provided you with enough reasons for doing this. 3. Ju... (read in full...)
No foreplay, very little oral, and he lasts about a minute... Do I keep working on sex with him?
Q. I wonder if anyone can help me here. I've been with a guy for over two and a half years. The sex I have with him is not too good. He is in his early 40s but he doesn't do much foreplay. He gets funny if I try to kiss him all over, he never explores ...
A. 21 November 2005: There could be tons of issues on why he is doing this. Something in his past/his upbringing/his earlier relationships etc can be some of the reasons. I would suggest you talk to him about it, tell him its a problem for you and if he tries to dodge ... (read in full...)
I fancy my best friend's younger sister... Do I ask her out?
Q. Dear Agony Aunt I am 22 and I have feelings for one of my best friend’s younger sister who is 16. She is very mature for her age and looks and acts nearer 20. We get on like a house on fire and have some great laughs together. I don’t have troub...
A. 21 November 2005: This is actually a difficult one, I have a younger sister myself and remember well being attracted to some of her friends in the past. And some of them were attracted to me, how could they not be? Every 16 year old girls dream is a guy 20+, until ... (read in full...)
I love her and don't want to hurt her, but I can't find a way to make it work.
Q. I've been dating a great girl for 1.5 years. The relationship has been somewhat long distance (about 2-3 hours driving one-way). She's only my second girlfriend, and the first girl I've been intimate with. Part of me wants to date other girls...
A. 21 November 2005: I agree on the breaking up, but I would be a bit more honest in doing it. You should tell her this long distance thing doesnt work for you, that you miss your friends, and that you do NOT want to move to the city therefor that is not a solution. If ... (read in full...)
How do you start a conversation about being ready for sex, when you're a virgin?
Q. How do you bring up the topic of sex with your partner, when you are still a virgin? I have not been in a sexual relationship before and I do not know how to start, or how to ask? What's the best way, if both are ready? If both are comfortable with ...
A. 20 November 2005: Is he a virgin to? And does he know you are? You have to tell him at least, if not the first time will probably be a sad and unnecessarily painful experience for you. I once dated a girl who didnt tell, and our first time was completely ruined by it ... (read in full...)
I want to break up with my guy. The distance between us makes me dread visiting him...
Q. This weekend, I am going to visit my long-distance boyfriend to tell him that it's not working for me and I want to end the relationship but still be friends. I love him but I'm not in love with him and I just can't deal with the distance thing. ...
A. 20 November 2005: Letter or phone sounds like your best friends here. And speaking of friends you should also talk to some of your closest friends after/before breaking up. That way they will have your side of the story and wont listen as closely if he in anger ... (read in full...)
Mum's racist views have percolated into my own unconscious mind, and I want to get beyond them!
Q. Hello, I want to break free of shackles that tie me up due to my upbringing. I have always looked at the world from the eyes of my mother, who is quite simple in her outlook, yet she is kind of racist at times. She looks at things black and white ...
A. 20 November 2005: Hmm, well, in my mind beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder. I find very often that people I didnt find fair to begin with becomes very good looking if I get to know them and like them. And vice versa. I must admit I often have trouble with the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't follow through with his promises!
Q. I am in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend for 2 months tells me he'll do things and he doesn't do them. Is he trying to tell me he doesn't want to be in this relationship any longer?...
A. 20 November 2005: My gf was complaining about that a lot earlier, and I dint really understand why when she occasionally exploded when I said 'no' where I earlier had said 'sounds nice' or 'good idea'. Now, in the end we figured out that we just speak about things ... (read in full...)
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