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writes: I meet this guy, lets just say it's like the pretty woman movie. He buys me all sort of expensive gifts and such. It is so different with him, the other day we were making out for 4 hours straight without having sex at all in any way.He says he is in love with me and I know for a fact I am in love with him, I have never felt this way about anyone before. Except now I find out he is married with no kids. Me myself have 1 kid. What should I do? What's the odds of him leaving her? Reply to this Question
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reader, Toddler 25 +, writes (21 November 2005):
You have two options:1. Tell him you will not see him again until he leaves his wife.2. Leave yourself right now, I guess thats the safest option and the others here have allready provided you with enough reasons for doing this.3. Just go on like before, hoping he will resolve things... no, this is not an option!! Dont decieve yourself and do this, it will hurt more and more for all involved (with him as possible exeption) as time goes by.
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reader, shania  +, writes (21 November 2005):
 He may be in love with you but does he love you enough to leave his wife for? The trouble with some married men is they think the grass is greener,that there bored with their mrs and need the excitment.My experience tells me that most married men,stick with their wife. Walk away please,this bloke is going to give you nothing but heartache.
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reader, trixy +, writes (21 November 2005):
you can never trust a man that has cheated on his wife to be with you, this just shows you what he is like and given a chance he will cheat on you. There are plenty of good HONIST people out there, go and find one of them. In the mean time have some fun with your child and forget this married man.
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reader, wishes +, writes (21 November 2005):
 By not telling you that he was married straight away, he was lying to you. What sort of a relationship do you want to be in? A comforting, safe, honest relationship? I doubt that you will be able to have this with him now. How could you ever trust him. Do you want this sort of unstability for your child? I know its hard to let someone go that you love, but he was not completely upfront with you from the start, and I dont think its fair on yourself or your child to try and fight for someone who is not giving you all you need. The right guy is out there for you somewhere. Just be patient. Best wishes. Try to keep your chin up. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2005): The odds depend from person to person .. what you need to work out is do you want to be with someone that has already shown you he can cheat on someone with you therefore he can cheat on you with someone else.
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