He dumped me because I'm polyamourous
Q. Hi, I am a 24-yr-old girl who has just been ditched by the guy she's in love with. I am distraught, any help would be amazing. Basically I've been seeing this guy for five months. From the off I told him I wanted to be polyamorous, and that I was a...
A. 7 July 2014: Thanks cupids. To the people who have said I'm selfish or that "sex isn't everything" - who said this was all about sex? I actually haven't had full sex with either of the couple, and also all four of us have been tested for STDs no safety is not a... (read in full...)
Dealing with the taste of him
Q. So I love to give my boyfriend oral, it's just really fun for me and turns me on a lot. Really it's just something I love to do. However, I am super uncomfortable with him finishing in my mouth. I've tasted it before and it tastes absolutely ...
A. 16 May 2010: Yeah the 20 cups of coffee probably is a contributing factor! I had the same problem as you, I love to suck my bloke off but I tend to feel a bit queasy after swallowing a lot. My guy said he didn't mind if I spat it out instead, but I always think ... (read in full...)
She can't get past the idea of smoking weed
Q. So my girlfriend and I have been going out for 6 months and we have a blast together. I've never been in a relationship so strong before. Recently, we've been fighting about one subject and one subject only: my smoking habits. It's not that I smoke ...
A. 10 May 2010: Hi there, I am in a similar situation as your girlfriend.
I've been with my boyfriend who's your age for over a year. We are crazy about each other and really get on - except when the subject of weed is brought up.
Now, I used to smoke weed a l... (read in full...)
Why is she even with me?
Q. Ok, I'll try to summarise this as best I can. We've been dating almost a year, and within the past 4 or 5 months, my girlfriend seems to have actually grown to detest me. She refuses all physical contact, I can't even kiss her on the cheek nowada...
A. 25 April 2010: Has your relationship hit rock bottom?
Well... um, sorry mate but quite possibly.
If you honestly love her - why, exactly...?! - then it's worth having a sit down with her and talking it over. Maybe she has other problems that are affectin... (read in full...)
Dealing with a bratty girlfriend?
Q. The more I learn about my girlfriend, the more I get turned off. In short, my girlfriend is bratty, and I feel is borderline gold-digger. Ironically, she knows that I think this, and will try to clean my image of her up by saying things like, "I ...
A. 25 April 2010: You two don't really sound like a match made in heaven. You're thinking of MARRYING this woman - a woman you describe as (and who certainly sounds) 'bratty'. The point of marriage is to love and cherish someone for the rest of your life. Will this ... (read in full...)
I feel stupid and unable in everything I do!
Q. Hello, I feel for a few years that Iam stupid and unable. I suffer from a social fobia and I go to psycholog and also have here pills which I can take. I am trying to overcome this in small steps. For example I found a job where I have to communic...
A. 2 February 2010: Thanks Colli, I'm trying to decide whether to try medication so it's good to get an insight. Glad to be of some help! Good luck to you too! x... (read in full...)
Should girls shave their pubic hair, or do guys find it attractive?
Q. ok i hope no one thinks im nasty or something but should girls shave pubic hair? or do guys find it attractive for girls to have it? im not haveing sex or anything i just wanted to know? ...
A. 2 February 2010: Frankly, I think you should try shaving it all off and see how you find it. Personally I cannot fathom how other women manage to spend that amount of time shaving it every day to stop the stubble, plus putting up with rashes and cuts (it WILL ... (read in full...)
I feel stupid and unable in everything I do!
Q. Hello, I feel for a few years that Iam stupid and unable. I suffer from a social fobia and I go to psycholog and also have here pills which I can take. I am trying to overcome this in small steps. For example I found a job where I have to communic...
A. 2 February 2010: Hi Colli,
I am about your age and have agoraphobia (fear of leaving the house) and suffer from panic attacks and OCD.
It's crap, isn't it? It's really depressing when everyone is off out to a party and you can't go - and then to top it off th... (read in full...)
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