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writes:So I love to give my boyfriend oral, it's just really fun for me and turns me on a lot. Really it's just something I love to do. However, I am super uncomfortable with him finishing in my mouth. I've tasted it before and it tastes absolutely disgusting to me. Maybe it's his diet of like 20 cups of coffee a day, maybe it's me, who knows. Either way, it's just not something I want in my mouth. He's never even asked me to and is totally fine with me not doing it, but I know it would feel better for him to finish that way. I want to do it, I'm just really scared to. Any tips on dealing with the taste and the amount of "squirt?" Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey all thanks for the responses. I've asked him to cum somewhere else but he finds it degrading to me (though I said it would be totally OK). He said he really honestly doesn't mind not cumming in my mouth as he's tasted the stuff and agrees it's pretty nasty. Honestly he seems to view oral as more of a foreplay thing and would vastly prefer to just have sex, so I guess it's not a problem. I'll be sure to ask him to stop the coffee for a bit if he wants to try it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): Glass of cranberry juice a day!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): Taste, it is the caffeine, it makes jizz taste pretty vile apparently. Ask him to stop drinking so much coffee. Fruit makes it taste better too (Pineapple makes it sweet according to one girl I know!)
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reader, ToadChops  +, writes (16 May 2010):
 Yeah the 20 cups of coffee probably is a contributing factor! I had the same problem as you, I love to suck my bloke off but I tend to feel a bit queasy after swallowing a lot. My guy said he didn't mind if I spat it out instead, but I always think that's a bit of an anti-climax, and I don't want to be second rate! So I find the best option is ask him (BEFORE he's about to cum!) to pull out and cum somewhere else on you - your boobs, for example. My boyfriend finds that really hot. Don't tell him he tastes gross if you think it'd shatter his confidence, just say you've never really enjoyed swallowing, and then he won't feel like it's just him.
Seriously, do the him-cumming-on-you thing! Everybody wins!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2010): Less/no coffee I think. Mango, or pineapple juice.
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