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Is chatting with strangers online about sex, cheating? My ex joined a BDSM site, I cannot explain it.

Q.   Recently i discovered that my partner had a profile on a BDSM website. As there is nothing dominant / submissive with regards to our relationship i found this very strange. To see what this was about i set up a profile myself and chatted to him/his ...

A.   19 May 2008: Nothing major he just doesn't mention important things to me, like he had a 4 year relationship with a married woman with a child that started to see him as a father figure. How he had a relationship with a girl who slept with her brother and got ... (read in full...)

Is chatting with strangers online about sex, cheating? My ex joined a BDSM site, I cannot explain it.

Q.   Recently i discovered that my partner had a profile on a BDSM website. As there is nothing dominant / submissive with regards to our relationship i found this very strange. To see what this was about i set up a profile myself and chatted to him/his ...

A.   19 May 2008: P.S When fighting over this he agreed that yeah he cheated on me in thought if not in deed, which really hurt...... (read in full...)

Is chatting with strangers online about sex, cheating? My ex joined a BDSM site, I cannot explain it.

Q.   Recently i discovered that my partner had a profile on a BDSM website. As there is nothing dominant / submissive with regards to our relationship i found this very strange. To see what this was about i set up a profile myself and chatted to him/his ...

A.   19 May 2008: Really appreciate the advise Diovan, great to get an objective view on things! I am still left wondering if he intended to cheat on me or whether he has done so in the past. I dont suppose i will ever know the answer to that question. He had... (read in full...)

Is chatting with strangers online about sex, cheating? My ex joined a BDSM site, I cannot explain it.

Q.   Recently i discovered that my partner had a profile on a BDSM website. As there is nothing dominant / submissive with regards to our relationship i found this very strange. To see what this was about i set up a profile myself and chatted to him/his ...

A.   18 May 2008: Thanks for the reply. Thats the thing though, when i got over the shock i told him that if he was into it then thats ok but he's still adament he isn't into it & that he was just curious, that it was fantasy & escapism, so i feel he's still lieing ... (read in full...)

I know I am better without him but it is sad to realise I invested time in a bad relationship!

Q.   Hi Cupids! I've posted on here many times about my ex bf of nearly three years cheating on me the entire time with many different girls. We've been broken up for seven months now with absolutely no contact for one and a half months. But lately I...

A.   18 May 2008: P.S if you could help with my question under yours in big question i'd much appreciate it. ... (read in full...)

I know I am better without him but it is sad to realise I invested time in a bad relationship!

Q.   Hi Cupids! I've posted on here many times about my ex bf of nearly three years cheating on me the entire time with many different girls. We've been broken up for seven months now with absolutely no contact for one and a half months. But lately I...

A.   18 May 2008: Difficult one to answer, just be glad that you've had a lucky escape and believe in karma, some people just dont think of how their actions hurt others it's as simple as that, it is in no way a reflection on you and nobody deserves to be cheated on, ... (read in full...)

How can I avoid having an affair with this woman at work?

Q.   I'm married and have a baby but I've been attracted to this woman at work for a few years, and I believe she is attracted to me as well. I don't plan on breaking my marriage vows, but I can't get her off my mind. Any suggestions on how to stop ...

A.   18 May 2008: Think about what you could lose and what would happen if something started and got discovered, how having two relationships would affect you and your family life. Focus your mind on that. ... (read in full...)

How come you don't hear stories of people who have cheated but changed and sorted it out?

Q.   how come you dont hear stories about people who have cheated in a relationship and have changed for the best and there partner accept them back as a different person? ...

A.   18 May 2008: People never chat about the good stuff! ... (read in full...)

Should I be upset that my husband sends over 100 text mesaages a month to her?

Q.   I am afraid that my husband of 21 years is having an emotional affair with a women at work. I have confronted him several times only to hear shes married, its nothing quit sweating about it, however, he works 5 to 5 and he tells me hes has no time...

A.   18 May 2008: I suppose it all depends on the content of the messages, what was not appropriate? 100 messages a mth isn't alot if he's working with this person. He's behaviour sounds like he's hiding something though and first and last person he texts each day ... (read in full...)

Should I be upset that my husband sends over 100 text mesaages a month to her?

Q.   I am afraid that my husband of 21 years is having an emotional affair with a women at work. I have confronted him several times only to hear shes married, its nothing quit sweating about it, however, he works 5 to 5 and he tells me hes has no time...

A.   18 May 2008: I suppose it all depends on the content of the messages, what was not appropriate? 100 messages a mth isn't alot if he's working with this person. He's behaviour sounds like he's hiding something though and first and last person he texts each day ... (read in full...)

I'm feeling like a failure, I cant make her climax anymore.

Q.   When me and my partner first met 2 and a half years ago, we had amazing sex! As with most relationships, that 'can't keep our hands off each other' phase died down but there was still a good and passionate sex life left in its wake. However, ...

A.   18 May 2008: That may be a side effect to the tablets she is taking for depression, this happened to me and eventually i changed my medication and all is back to normal now in that department :-)... (read in full...)

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