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*ost_Soul85
writes:When me and my partner first met 2 and a half years ago, we had amazing sex! As with most relationships, that 'can't keep our hands off each other' phase died down but there was still a good and passionate sex life left in its wake. However, around the start of this year our sex life died to virtually nothing! My partner was depressed and this caused her to lose her sex drive. She has now sought treatment for her depression and our sex life is back on. Now, here is the problem. Our sex life is back on, it's just as passionate and loving as it once was, we both really enjoy it and it has definatley made us close as a couple again - trouble is my partner now finds it hard to climax, in fact she hasn't climaxed ONCE since she started the treatment for her depression. She say's she almost gets there but then 'something' stops her. I asked her when she started having trouble climaxing and she said "when we stopped having sex."I find this so frustrating, when we first met I never had a problem bringing her to climax (over and over again) but thats the rub I guess. I feel guilty that I can't give her what I was once able to give her. That she can make me feel so good and I can't return the favour... Does anyone have any tips or hints they can give, on how I could get my partner to that point again. I miss making her climax and don't want to feel like a failure anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008): Hi
I also got married six months back and i am also suffering from depression, my sex drive has gone almost low, i enjoy watching other girls and porn sites which eases me and i feel relaxed. although my wife is very attractive and caring but the zeal that i used to have earlier for sex is missing after marriage and i dont feel like having sex with her anymore. however, i am normal with her in my behaviour but the urge to have a sex with her is gone.....can anyone help me out with this problem as i want her to be happy and re juvinated again.
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reader, tickleyourfancy  +, writes (18 May 2008):
That may be a side effect to the tablets she is taking for depression, this happened to me and eventually i changed my medication and all is back to normal now in that department :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2008): Is your girlfriend taking antidepressants, as quite a lot of them affect the ability to orgasm, especially the prozac types. If she is on medication it might be worth her telling the doctor to see if she can change to a different one.Good luck
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