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writes:Hi Cupids!I've posted on here many times about my ex bf of nearly three years cheating on me the entire time with many different girls. We've been broken up for seven months now with absolutely no contact for one and a half months. But lately I've started to get really sad all the time about all of it. How could he not have cared at all when he was cheating and lying all the time? I know I am so much better off without him but I am so sad about being with someone like him for so long only to realize he didn't care about me at all, forget love!
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (18 May 2008):
 Aw I feel your pain. And as you already know you are so lucky to be out of the relationship. Of course it is sad to feel like you wasted your time with someone who didn't care about you, but don't regret anything. Everything happens for a reason. As for him not caring it is because he is a dick. They are out there. The ones who care only about themselves and sex, not what they are doing to their girlfriends. He obviously has no concious. Don't give up on love. Give up on jerks. The right one is out there for you, and having been through such a crappy relationship you will really appreciate him even more :) I'm happy you got away from this creep and he will get whats coming to him one day. Be happy and don't let him have any affect on your mind. So one shitty guy didn't care, it is his loss. You can and will do sooo much better. Just laugh that he screwed up with you and will end up with a girl who cares nothing for him. Good luck with everything.
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reader, tickleyourfancy  +, writes (18 May 2008):
P.S if you could help with my question under yours in big question i'd much appreciate it.
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reader, tickleyourfancy +, writes (18 May 2008):
Difficult one to answer, just be glad that you've had a lucky escape and believe in karma, some people just dont think of how their actions hurt others it's as simple as that, it is in no way a reflection on you and nobody deserves to be cheated on, someday someone will cheat on him and then it might have some idea of the hurt he has caused others.
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