How can a person love another for so many years without changing or cheating or wanting something else?
Q. It is a long post, I hope you could be patient about me... any opinion would be appreciated!!! Recently I just got out of a horrible relationship of 3 years, I actually feel relieved and alive, although I feel unhappy for having to say goodbye t...
A. 1 May 2012: i am trying to find the words to address at least most of what i "think" you are asking. i would first like to point out that you are not alone in any of these feelings. i have asked myself these same questions, and sadly have also been cheated on. ... (read in full...)
How do you find the inner strength to help people?
Q. I just want to let everyone know that I have been on this site for at least 4 years and its been the best site from heaven.... I have been troubled by my broken marriage and have a hard time putting things together ....how do you people do it ...ju...
A. 6 September 2011: am i allowed to answer this? lol what comes to mind first for me is, at some of the worst times in my life, there was noone there to help...how i wished someone would come along and say "hey youre worth it, lets get you up and dust you off" and ... (read in full...)
Is my ex contacting me just to check up on me?
Q. Is my ex contacting me purely to check up on me? Why is she doing this? Since we broke up for circumstantial reasons 6 months ago, she has moved on. She moved on very quickly (within a month) and has been in a relationship ever since. I've date...
A. 6 September 2011: andy...you see other couples and think about her, and how shes with someone...you miss the closeness, you miss being a couple, and you think she has moved on. if that were a fact she wouldnt be contacting you. i hate to be a downer but not every ... (read in full...)
How does one get over a past abusive relatonship?
Q. I have a question that is been bothering me lately and would love to get opinions on it. I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship about a year and a half ago.(To make the story short I was never good enough) even though people say i should ...
A. 1 September 2011: this is coming from someone whos been abused in every way imaginable. its a tough road. somewhere along the line whether from childhood or relationships i developed an "im not worthy" attitude. my first realization toward recovery was "it took years ... (read in full...)
Is my ex contacting me just to check up on me?
Q. Is my ex contacting me purely to check up on me? Why is she doing this? Since we broke up for circumstantial reasons 6 months ago, she has moved on. She moved on very quickly (within a month) and has been in a relationship ever since. I've date...
A. 1 September 2011: if you truly want to move on, you have to take the power back. this is not a game, its your life. you have nothing to prove to anyone, just have to take care of yourself. at this point, being in touch with her at any level is not only hurting you, ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to want to spend every weekend with my boyfriend?
Q. Hi. Here is my issue. Me and my bf have been togther almost 2 years, and i feel there has always been an issue with his friends being very important to him. He works shifts so sometimes I dont get to see him much at weekends. It's not that he spends ...
A. 1 September 2011: hmmmm. i have a different take on this situation. you said the two of you are buying a house together? would he then be spending every waking moment with you? yes. id be more concerned with once youre living together, will he even come home? if time ... (read in full...)
I've met some I really like, I don't want to scare her off
Q. Hi Guys, I've been online dating for a while now and have had lots of dates but - you know how it is - normally they aren't really what you're looking for. However, last week I had a date with this girl and it was truly amazing. She initially ma...
A. 1 September 2011: wow, you are a total sweetheart! your thoughtfulness and consideration is obvious. you have made contact, you have asked her out, texted her, you have done everything right.the rest is up to her. personally, i appreciate a man that does follow up ... (read in full...)
Is my ex contacting me just to check up on me?
Q. Is my ex contacting me purely to check up on me? Why is she doing this? Since we broke up for circumstantial reasons 6 months ago, she has moved on. She moved on very quickly (within a month) and has been in a relationship ever since. I've date...
A. 1 September 2011: yep, you DO have the right to be angry. what reason could she possibly have to contact you other than "hey how you been? hope youre well" every once in awhile? just out of courtesy and because she cares about you as a person, thats it, in my ... (read in full...)
How can I get over him hurting me and then rejecting me when I wanted to give the relationship another chance
Q. I told my ex bf how he hurt me he said he loves me and misses me so I'm so stupid I practically begged him let's start over he rejected me and says he don't know about that after he cheated and I left him he tried to flip it on me what do I do? How ...
A. 1 September 2011: first of all, youre NOT stupid, you love him and you were willing to do anything to stay with him/make it work. he, on the other hand is not doing this, hes rejecting you. AND he tried to put it on you (his cheating)because he refuses to own up for ... (read in full...)
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