Bf is hinting at sex! I am scared to do this..any advice?
Q. My Boyfriend is 19 and im 16, he keeps hinting about sex, but im too scared, as i am a virgin and im scared it will hurt and also im body consious so that doesnt help either, any suggestions on anything ??...
A. 12 June 2009: If you don't want to have sex, you don't want to have sex. End of story. But if you would like to try it out, and are simply nervous about what might go wrong, then here is some advice. First, don't rely on him to have birth control. Go to ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to tell his mates that we are dating!
Q. Hey I was just wonderinig you see my boyfreind is really nice and everything i still love him and that. i just find one problem he doesn't want me to tell any of his mates that we are going out! this doesn't really bother me except when i see them ...
A. 12 June 2009: There is one possibility: he may be afraid that they're better than he is at stealing your heart. Let him know that you'd never give them a second glance while he's around.
Other than that, if he is trying to keep you a secret from EVERYBOD... (read in full...)
Broken my hymen or not?
Q. Hey x I started my periods last year i was lyk one of the late starters but i used pads all the time and last nite i thought i would use tampax compak and well i put it is and by a mistake i dont know how i did it but i left one of the plastic ...
A. 12 June 2009: It's possible, and even highly probable. But the real question is: so what? Seriously, a hymen means next to nothing. Some people aren't even born with them!
I do feel bad for you though - broken or not, that sounds like it hurts.... (read in full...)
How do you break up with someone when you know it will crush them?
Q. How do you break up with someone when you know it will crush them? I care deeply about my bf but I can't handle our relationship any more. The problems between us I can't see getting resolved and I just have to get out. But how!? I don't ha...
A. 12 June 2009: Which would make you feel worse: someone you love breaking up with you, or someone you love leading you on for months and months and then breaking up with you? If you really want to save his feelings, make it as quick as possible.... (read in full...)
Husband can't get an erection! What causes this?
Q. Hello, My husband lost his erection about a year ago. We can't make love, because he can't hold it. Do you know how to find out what is causing this? I would like to hear as much opinion as possible even if it's just one word. How do you find o...
A. 12 June 2009: Please tell me you've been to a doctor. If not, get off this website and go!
Other than that, have you tried asking him what would turn him on the most? Maybe he has a secret fetish he's afraid to tell you, because he thinks you would reject i... (read in full...)
I put my foot down, will he rise to the challenge?
Q. I am in a long distance relationship for three months now. Things were looking good and me and my boyfriend tried to be as open as possible about issues. When we started we were both seeing other people. In my case I was in a transition phase. It ...
A. 12 June 2009: Sorry, but if he doesn't love you now, there's absolutely no way you can "make" him love you. Think about it: why would you want him to fall in love with a version of you that is putting on a show for him? Wouldn't you rather find a guy who will ... (read in full...)
Was I a fool to sleep with him after just a month?
Q. Hi all, Can you advise please. i am separated for 4 months now and i met a guy beginning of may, not my usually type so i reckon that was a good omen. Anyhow we have met a few times, he makes me laugh and we generally get along very well. ...
A. 12 June 2009: Not at all! Did you have fun? Then no regrets. :)
A guy who has respect for you won't stop respecting you after sex, just like a guy who doesn't love you won't suddenly love you after sex. You do what feels right for YOU, and don't worry ab... (read in full...)
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